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Does anyone actually try to "gape" their partner during anal. Is there a little "thrill" there for either partner?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Sex can be a very "visual" sport. Gaping appears to be a whole specific subset of porn, yet I don't encounter many here who are actually "into it".

As a giver, do you get a "thrill" if you see you have "gaped" your partner (anus stays open a bit after penetration)? If you are the "reciever" and know you have "gaped" for your partner (obviously YOU can't see it...unless mirrors or a camera is involved), does it give you a little "thrill"?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
If I am a giver, I do enjoy seeing a "gape" in my lover after anal..
Zandrock , Mr Dj , Istanbull , Bignuf , kmarsico , AF
6
If I am a reciever, I do enjoy knowin I have "gaped" for my lovers view.
bayosgirl , Zandrock
2
If I am a giver, I don't care if my partner "gapes". It's not a "turn on" view.
TWE112 , squire , Gunsmoke , Incendiaire , Alan & Michele , AmethystSmoke
6
If I am a reciever, I don't care if I "gape" for a partner or not.
Calla , squire , Gunsmoke , Gone (LD29) , KrissyNovacaine , TheirPet , Beck , Incendiaire , potstickers , fernwehh , married with children , AmethystSmoke , sweetpea12 , Llewey , SecretKinksters
15
Other?
SavingMyself , Two Grand , Beck , travelnurse
4
Total votes: 33 (27 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Calla Calla
Neither me or my boyfriend find that to be a turn on or have any interest in it.
09/06/2012
Contributor: TWE112 TWE112
Me and my girlfriend are still pretty new to anal but I really don't have interest in whether I gape her or not. If I did I wouldn't care, but I don't find it a turn on necessarily.
09/06/2012
Contributor: squire squire
Doesn't matter for me and my partner.
09/06/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
The thought kind of grosses me out honestly.
09/06/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I like it but not where it's HUGE and stays open for a long time. That's just gross.
09/07/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm pretty visual - but gaping is like anal sex graduate school - and we're still in K-12!
09/07/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
It's not something that really concerns me.
09/07/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Meh, never thought about it.
09/07/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I've never really thought about it either.
09/07/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Gaping isn't something we try for. I don't find it sexy and neither does my partner.
09/07/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Sex can be a very "visual" sport. Gaping appears to be a whole specific subset of porn, yet I don't encounter many here who are actually "into it".

As a giver, do you get a "thrill" if you see you have ... more
I am amazed by the WE DON'T CARE comments, so far, since my buddy, who owns an adult store (and where sadly, I don't really shop anymore, since discovering EF...but he doesn't know it, since he OWNS, not RUNS the store), but HE says that this "genre" of porn gets a LOT of sales???!!!! It must be turning SOMEONE on. I wonder WHO????
09/09/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
this seems like a pretty specific fetish for people into bigger insertions. i've never thought about it, and i consider myself generally "into" the buttsex, but haven't so much ever done the larger-insertion thing with anyone. I guess if somebody's reeeeally into buttsex, that makes sense for them, but it sounds like a specific subset within a subset of people.
09/09/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
A littel gape is good to see. Shows you did a great job and they are enjoying it very much.

Because someone who's not enjoying it, snaps shut.
09/09/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Neither of us tries to make it happen nor is it something we have an interest in pursuing despite the fact that both of us are pretty visual when it comes to sex.
09/10/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Sex can be a very "visual" sport. Gaping appears to be a whole specific subset of porn, yet I don't encounter many here who are actually "into it".

As a giver, do you get a "thrill" if you see you have ... more
I'm the receiver and we've never really talked about it
09/28/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I um thought that that was a side effect of too much anal before I became educated. I think it's gross. I thought that maybe you would stay like that and shit would just fall out. I don't care for it, looks sickly!!
09/28/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Neither of us find it a turn on.
10/01/2012