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does anyone else have trouble getting there partner to do anal.

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Contributor: MJisfreaky MJisfreaky
I have been trying for a while to get my wife to use anal toys on me and she is hesitant. got her to use a small dildo but wont even think about a strap on. I would really like to try that with her. any sugestions? wanted to se if I was the only one. or not
02/04/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Yes it was hard to get my wife to use toys for me anally. I started by getting some small glass toys that were non-phallic. They are 'non threatening' and didn't suggest that I may be gay. Once she experienced how explosive my orgasms are with anal stimulation - it got easier - because she always felt a little guilty about how many orgasms she had vs. my one-and-done. This gave her a chance to 'reciprocate' in a way.

Once we got started it got easier to introduce new and larger toys. She did eventually try pegging - but doesn't like the idea - so no more of that.

For what it's worth - when my wife was in her 30s, I doubt I would have had any success. Even she refers to her 30s as 'the drought' - she blames it on the kids. Whatever - at least once she reached her 40s, things have gotten much better.
02/04/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
yessssss, if im lucky i get the ass a few times a year. I think she would enjoy it more if we had more backdoor love. Theres way to much time between that little tight pink ass being penetrated.
02/05/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by MJisfreaky
I have been trying for a while to get my wife to use anal toys on me and she is hesitant. got her to use a small dildo but wont even think about a strap on. I would really like to try that with her. any sugestions? wanted to se if I was the only one. ... more
We surf this site together. That helps...a LOT to get us BOTH into trying new things. I suggest you bring your wife to this site, so she can KNOW a lot of folks are doing pegging and maybe ask HER to choose a neat little strap on. Explain it is NOT anything but another way for the both of YOU to play together. It is all about EDUCATION.
02/05/2012