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Does my boyfriend want to rim me?

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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Obviously I could just ask him, but I thought it would be hot to demand it after a shower, during play time.
That being said, he loves playing with my ass, and has rimmed me a few times in the shower. I think he's concerned about hygiene. Right? I mean, he probably wouldn't lick it if he didn't want to... thoughts? Comments? Suggestions?
12/05/2011
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Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
If he has done it in the past and enjoyed it, he probably would be up for it and having it "forced" on him I could see him enjoying it.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Um, asking him when you're not having sex would probably be your best bet. People tend to actually be more turned off by ideas that are unappealing to them when asked during sex then when being asked at another time.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
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Originally posted by Ms. Spice
Um, asking him when you're not having sex would probably be your best bet. People tend to actually be more turned off by ideas that are unappealing to them when asked during sex then when being asked at another time.
Well, rimming is the kind of thing I've only felt comfortable with if my partner is like, for real into it. It's the same thing with oral, if they aren't like, "OMG! I want to eat your pussy/ass!" then it doesn't do it for me. I should probably just ask him
12/07/2011
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
you could always go with the blunt approach and sit on his face.

but if hes done it before, hes probably fine with it, and is just a little unsure about it still. if he likes it, it will get more and more frequent.
02/12/2012