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Do either you or your partner prefer to douche the booty before anal play to feel more confident/comfortable? If so, do you find it easy to do? My partner wants to have more play in this department, and he mentioned he would feel better doing this.
Do either you or your partner prefer to douche the booty before anal play to feel more confident/comfortable? If so, do you find it easy to do? My partner wants to have more play in this department, and he mentioned he would feel better doing this. I would even be willing to help him in the shower. It's just unfamiliar territory to me, so if you have experience, feel free to share any tips you have.
We have done anal for decades. We have never, ever had an "accident" or had any obvious "soiling" at all during or after anal play. Your rectum and anus are EMPTY unless you need to have a bowl movement, so that is NOT an issue.
The problem is that douche and enema's can wash out natural secretions and cause irritation and damage to the delicate intestinal lining. Not something you want to do very often, if at all.
A good scrub with soap of the outside and maybe a nice soapy finger in the anus is usually all we do, since we also do oral/anal play...in and out of the shower, but always after a good washing. He loves licking me and I love licking him back there, as part of oral play and prior to any penetration play by fingers or toys.
Just don't ever go anal to vaginal without a good cleaning and you should be fine. Make sure you have a bowl movement well before going to do anal play and your lower intestines should be pretty darn clear, if you have normal function there.
An inexpensive "Fleet's" enema from the drugstore can also, I guess, be used the first time you go anal, just to show you how clear you really are in there. One of my hubbies old girlfriends used to use one (she actually had HIM give it to her) prior to any anal play...which she too was very "into", so that would be a safe "one time" thing to try.