The New Intimacy

The first time you tried anal?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
How long into the relationship was it before you tried anal sex. Which partner suggested it.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Less than a month
5  (10%)
1-3 months
12  (25%)
4-6
2  (4%)
6-12
7  (15%)
Over a year
15  (31%)
Never tried it
7  (15%)
Total votes: 48
Poll is closed
07/16/2012
  • Treat Her! Gift Set For Women For $69.99 Only
  • Complete lovers gift set
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on Anal Sex:

Prostate, strap on, harnesses, Nexus Jr.
Anal sex on me is a big part of our sex lives. DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really...

Suggestions for an anal beginner?
I would like to work up to anal sex and have no idea where to start. Any suggestions for tiny anal toys?

Stretching out your butt hole
My husband is REALLY into anal sex and I am into it too at times. I was wondering what the best way was to stretch out my asshole because it's really.

How do you feel about anal sex guy and gals?
I like anal and my boyfriend likes sticking it in my butt. Lets see if it is guys are girl that like it more.

Has anyone gotten caught having anal sex?
My wife was pegging me and her sister in law dropped by unannounced. Lucky the Alarm beeped but she punched the code. That was wild trying to get...
07/16/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
All my idea...
07/16/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Been with the wife for 24 years, I have mentioned it many times but so far she is not willing. I can hope that one day she will be willing but for now it is just a fantasy.
07/16/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
A few months after we started going out, I don't remember how long exactly, but we've been married for 7 years, and try anal occasionally.
07/16/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I've never tried it, but I REALLY want to!
07/16/2012
Contributor: Iris Iris
A little over a month after we (FINALLY) got together I tried it with my boyfriend.
07/18/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
I (male 1/2) asked her first. We accidentally tried it a few times before we officially tried anal. Slipped out and "Oh No! Thats not it"
07/18/2012
Contributor: clp clp
Over a year, and it was the first time we'd had sex to boot.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
It was between 6 months to a year an it was his idea
07/20/2012
Contributor: Squeaky Squeaky
Took me 4-5 years to finally try it. His idea. No regrets!
07/20/2012
Contributor: Shadowed Shadowed
8 months, and it was both our idea. We were talking about limits. Anal was not one of them, thankfully.
08/24/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How long into the relationship was it before you tried anal sex. Which partner suggested it.
Over a year.
08/24/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
First guy I tried it with I wasn't even dating. But it hurt too much so I stopped. Tried again with someone else after being with him a couple months.
09/08/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
The better part of a year, we mutually discussed it for quite a while first.
09/09/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
It was with my first boyfriend, and we were both each other's firsts, sexually. I think I was 21 or so, so we had been together for about 5 years by then. My idea! And what a good idea it was...
09/09/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
She was the one that suggested it. It did not go well the first time and then we waited almost a year before we tried again. It was great the second time we tried.
09/09/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Over a year
09/10/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
First time was when I was 18, I was with a man who I loved very much. It was my idea, though for the life of me I can't remember how I brought it up xD This was probably about 4 months into our relationship.

With my current partner, I am pretty sure I brought it up originally as an idea, and we had been together for quite a while at the point when it finally happened.
09/10/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Anal play took over a year, but we still haven't actually had penetrative anal sex.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I don't remember how long into our relationship it was, but I once told him to "do something crazy", and that's when he slipped it in.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How long into the relationship was it before you tried anal sex. Which partner suggested it.
4-6 I think but it's hard to remember
11/30/2012
Contributor: SexToys-R-Us SexToys-R-Us
Took me about 4 or 5 years to try it, we just recently started, his idea, and i must say im not completely sold on anal yet, its a bit painful
11/30/2012
Contributor: Gustavo 9999 Gustavo 9999
I was 15 and she was 14, but I guess she didn't take a shower cause she was moist in her booty, so I put it in, i need came so hard loved it
Mar 27, 4:03 pm