Guys: what makes you like anal sex with your girl?

Contributor: melliegirl melliegirl
Guys: what makes you like anal sex with your girl? What do you crave about it?
03/09/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Relevant topic analysis on Anal Sex:

I want a liberator that is DP friendly...
I am looking at all the liberator gear (there is SO much!) and I want one that will hold a toy that I can ride, while the hubby has anal sex with me.

Were any of you ladies into anal sex long before vaginal sex?
How did you introduce vaginal sex into the mix? Was it a good change or do you still enjoy anal or like it more, even?

Which sexual act, was done to you first?
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Does Anal Sex hurt?
I've tried anal sex and I cant seem to do it with my partner because it's very painful. What could I use so it wouldn't hurt so much?
03/09/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The uber tight experience. As an older man I'm not as sensitive as I once was - so the pressure is helpful.
03/10/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
It is just a totally different feel for me. The extreme tightness of being in a womans anus, also has it's own sense of sexual arousal. My current gf has never done anal, but is willing to try just to please me. We haven't attempted it yet, although I do place a finger in her ass hole while we are doing doggy style, just to get her used to the idea and feel of something being in there. We will eventually give it a try, but I'm not trying to rush it. I want her to be completely ready. We have an incredible sex life and I really think she would enjoy it once she got used to it. Any suggestions for how to take the next step of getting there other than my finer penetration?
03/10/2013
Contributor: melliegirl melliegirl
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Originally posted by MrWood
It is just a totally different feel for me. The extreme tightness of being in a womans anus, also has it's own sense of sexual arousal. My current gf has never done anal, but is willing to try just to please me. We haven't attempted it yet, ... more
make sure she relaxes, have her legs closed when you start and go an inch at a time at her pace. Good luck
03/10/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
The first girl with whom I was intimate, was terrified of becoming pregnant. So our initiation to sexual intercourse was anal sex.
Even after I'd acquired condoms and she had became more comfortable with vaginal sex she asked to get butt fucked just as often. I liked it then and still do.
03/10/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
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Originally posted by melliegirl
make sure she relaxes, have her legs closed when you start and go an inch at a time at her pace. Good luck
Thanks, I was thinking about getting some beginner toys. Do they help?
03/12/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
The novelty, the visual, different sensation, taboo
03/12/2013
Contributor: melliegirl melliegirl
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Originally posted by MrWood
Thanks, I was thinking about getting some beginner toys. Do they help?
probably never used toys for that but i've read it helps. (liquid courage helps alot too for the female to relax)
03/12/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
Most guys jump right to how tight it is but for me it is more the intimacy of it. It speaks volumes about how much trust and openness a couple has to be able to explore something that can be so sensitive and that can go from amazing to agonizing in a heartbeat. I won’t deny that, yes the added tightness is nice from time to time. My wife’s pussy, even after our first child, is plenty tight. So for us, it comes down to intimacy. Probably 1 out of four times though she does want me to grab her hair and go to town anally.
07/07/2013
Contributor: CE CE
I love anal and have found it excites me on many different levels.

- Tightness. Obviously the physical tightness feel wonderful. Vaginal sex is terrific as well, but it does not have the tightness of those 2 rings.
- Taboo. Given that anal is sort of 'against the rules', it still feels 'naughty' and thats a turn on.
- Trust. When its done wrong, it can be painful or injurious, so when my partner allows me to penetrate her anally, it means she trusts me and I like knowing that.
- Specialness. Most women only let certain lovers enter them anally, so its more special to be one of them.
- Submission. While anal does not have to be part of D/S, it definitely has a submissive quality to it that adds excitement as I 'take' her ass.
- Intimacy. Given all of the above it is just such a more intimate act than vaginal or oral sex. I find it to be a more bonding, joining activity that always excite me. Seeing, hearing and feeling her react to be anally penetrated and having an orgasm is an amazing thing that I never get tired of!
07/08/2013