Have you ever pushed the envelope on your comfort zone....just for the fun of it?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Let me set the scene. Yesterday afternoon, hubby is at the computer paying the bills. We recently got rid of our two "cloth" office chairs and replaced them with REALLY NICE, glove leather, completely adjustable rolling chairs, with STRONG arms, wide seating area and a single, large piece of super soft, black, leather for the seat bottom (NO SEAMS), so sex play in those chairs means NO worries about lube/body fluids getting into seams or inside the cushion. PLUS they are MOMBO comfy. (Roll them out of the library into the family room sometimes just to watch a movie)!!! Anyway, hubby is finishing the bills, so I ask if we can go play on EF. I am already way horny, and EF is our "foreplay zone" now many days. Of course, he says "sure, come on and join me", figuring I was going to pull up my chair. However, instead I kissed his neck, started "feeling him up" from behind his chair, then stood him up enough to peel off his shorts and undies. I grabbed some lube (we now have official decreetly hidden lube stashes all over the house (empty nesters), including by the computer, and so after a few kisses to his penis, I applied some thick lube to his now erect penis and, facing the computer, impaled my tush on his upright flagpole!!!! I was SO horny and wet, I just slid right down without a lot of wasted time. Once firmly sitting in his lap and with him just sitting back and grinning (and kissing my back and neck), I started to type my daily EF blogs and questions. WELL....that alone wasn't good enough and he remembered we had some "toys" in a box under the computer hutch. He found my strap on butterfly vibe with clit bump and short penis probe and managed to apply it to my pussy, and strap it around my legs, without me getting up off his shaft.

Since I am a woman, I can do what most (all?) men cannot,I can MULTI-TASK. SO...while getting hornier and hornier, I was STILL able (for a while) to do my EF blogging and shopping. Until, that is, I came...HARD, and squirted...a lot. A few minutes (and a few blogs) later,I came AGAIN,and squirted AGAIN!!!!

By this time, the chair (and floor), not to mention hubby's lap, was a MESS. Anyway, with just a little wiggle, HE finally came deep up my rump for what felt like a full minute. I could feel spasm after spasm, and wave after wave of cum. We had not "done it" the prior evening or that morning. He was WAY ready. I had actually written on one blog about "going to lick up all his cum" after we sat up", just to "tease him" as he looked over my shoulder, frankly amazed I was typing coherently.

Now, I must admit that while we BOTH love rimming and anal tongue play, I have never done ATM. However, I was mucho turned on at that moment seriously hot....so after another ten minutes or so, with his penis now limp in my butt and his cum dripping down around it, and onto his inner thighs...making even bigger mess, I decided to "go for it".

I "dismounted" him, but told him to STAY PUT. I pushed his chair back from the computer and spread his legs. I then used my tongue to clean his inner thighs and lap...licking up every drop of cum (and my squirt) that I could reach. It was SO...SO hot and "nasty" a thing to do. NO...I honestly did NOT take his penis in my mouth. Just couldn't do that (thought about it,however). But I did end up getting an ANTISEPTIC "Wet One" pop up (we keep those wherever we have lube and toys) and lovingly cleaned off his penis with it, and THEN popped it into my mouth for a bit of "thank you" kissing and sucking (he was NOT about to get hard again...try as he might. He was SO spent). **** HINT TO MANUFACTURERS READING THIS....and on EF. "WET ONE's" and other antiseptic wipes taste AWFUL. They make antiseptic MOUTH WASH, so I know that this CAN be flavored and SAFE to put in the mouth. HELLO FOLKS...how about a TASTE GOOD antiseptic wipe, for cleaning areas right before putting those areas in one's mouth?????? I would buy it NOW.

Anyway....I even ended up having him stand up, and watch me "lick the seat" of all his cum and my squirt...and then made him KNEEL on the chair so I could lick it all off his butt and back of his legs too. I basically gave him a nice above the knee to below the belly button, front and back tongue bath and it was...AMAZING, and fun.

HOWEVER, I did "stretch my envelope" realizing that licking and slurping up that luscious cum of his, which I LOVE so much, meant licking it up even though it had just dribbled out of my ass (clean as it was, having not had a lot to eat during the day, and knowing I didn't have to have a BM). That was as close to ATM as I have EVER gone. I am still kind of shivering with mixed emotion. On the one hand it was AMAZINGLY HOT AND SEXY (he kissed me deep on the mouth as a WOW....thank you...for a good ten minutes afterwards), and yet there is a TINY "I did that? oogy factor". NOT SURE which will win in my head.

On the one hand, I am ready to try that again...just because, again, things that PUSH the envelope are SO "giving" and SO uniquely bonding...in a way I could not, and would not, bond with ANYONE else. However, are there really any more issues with germs? I am sure not feeling sick, and NEVER HAVE from lots of RIMMING play for decades, so is there REALLY any big difference???? Are there any extra or "new" germs I was exposed to? I really think not.

Oh well...I will see where things to in the future.

THAT was my NEW "push the envelope" moment.

Care to share YOURS????????????????
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I have "pushed the envelope" on my comfort level...I ....?
Stagger13 , Bignuf , Sera26 , panthercat23 , HotMilk , brevado , Missmarc , LusciousLollypop , edeneve , Bullfroggy and Rose , deltalima , LavenderSkies , Supervixen , married with children , damnbul12 , potstickers , Nacht Stern , darklegion00 , Zandrock , Research , ginnyluvspotter , mastersonv , ViVix , southerndixie , AliMc
25
Nope. I have "hard limits" and never push my envelope.
crazycouple7281 , Geogeo , Boyfriend , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Rossie , bayosgirl
6
Other?
El-Jaro , TigerLily9 , Gunsmoke , Gone (LD29) , sweetpea12
5
Total votes: 36 (36 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
My gf and I both have hard limits.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by crazycouple7281
My gf and I both have hard limits.
So what happens if one of you wants to "test out" the limit you set on yourself..which is kind of what I did last night???
08/23/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Depends what it is, but I have some limits which are strong
08/23/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
We tend not to push the limits too much but we do tread the line a lot.
08/23/2012
Contributor: HotMilk HotMilk
Yes I have push the limits.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Geogeo
Depends what it is, but I have some limits which are strong
Just curious....what are the hard limits? (Strong limits, as you say)?
08/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by panthercat23
We tend not to push the limits too much but we do tread the line a lot.
This one was "treading the line" in my own mind...but hey, it was MY limit and MY choice, so who cares???
08/23/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
hard limits!
08/23/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted 'Other' because I would be happy to push limits, but my wife is vanilla - it's never happened. On the other hand I give her credit because I push her limits frequently. The whole idea of vibes was one limit - then there was the question of non-vibrating dildos - then shaving and anal play (for me). All of these were 'unwelcome' changes that she allowed herself to become comfortable with.

Still pushing after all these years (23+)!
08/23/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
We love to experiment and push the norm, but I've never done anything I regretted, just some things I might prefer to avoid doing again
08/23/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Let me set the scene. Yesterday afternoon, hubby is at the computer paying the bills. We recently got rid of our two "cloth" office chairs and replaced them with REALLY NICE, glove leather, completely adjustable rolling chairs, with STRONG ... more
Yes, I have "pushed the envelope" on my comfort level
08/23/2012
Contributor: penny12 penny12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Let me set the scene. Yesterday afternoon, hubby is at the computer paying the bills. We recently got rid of our two "cloth" office chairs and replaced them with REALLY NICE, glove leather, completely adjustable rolling chairs, with STRONG ... more
" **** HINT TO MANUFACTURERS READING THIS....and on EF. "WET ONE's" and other antiseptic wipes taste AWFUL. They make antiseptic MOUTH WASH, so I know that this CAN be flavored and SAFE to put in the mouth. HELLO FOLKS...how about a TASTE GOOD antiseptic wipe, for cleaning areas right before putting those areas in one's mouth?????? I would buy it NOW. "

I laughed SOOO hard when I read this I snorted. And I fully agree with you.
08/23/2012
Contributor: penny12 penny12
Quote:
Originally posted by brevado
We love to experiment and push the norm, but I've never done anything I regretted, just some things I might prefer to avoid doing again
I agree whole heartedly with how you phrased this.

And would like to add there are some things that I do have very "hard limits" on and probably will never push that envelope based on personal 'beliefs'/feelings/etc . (Three+some being at the top of that list; feeling/satisfaction wise totally makes sense/understandable but I personally wouldn't be able to participate in one/am uncomfortable by the idea of me personally participating in one).
08/23/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Yes, I love to experience new things.
08/24/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Yes, I have "pushed the envelope" on my comfort level...I ....?
08/25/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I voted 'Other' because I would be happy to push limits, but my wife is vanilla - it's never happened. On the other hand I give her credit because I push her limits frequently. The whole idea of vibes was one limit - then there was the ... more
She doesn't sound that "vanilla" to me...not with what you are describing. You go girl.
08/27/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
Yes, I have and still do. I think that when you have someone you love and trust and loves and cares for you in return it is easier.
09/07/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I will not do ATM, either with his penis or cum that's been in my butt (he won't do that anyway.) I love anal play but I guess that's what you call a 'hard limit'. I don't want to risk getting sick from my poop germs.
09/08/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
yup. Very open. I push them sometimes
09/16/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Let me set the scene. Yesterday afternoon, hubby is at the computer paying the bills. We recently got rid of our two "cloth" office chairs and replaced them with REALLY NICE, glove leather, completely adjustable rolling chairs, with STRONG ... more
Sometimes I push the envelope but most of the time I stay in my comfort zone
09/28/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
My bf is into a lot of different things than I am and I am starting to try them out for him it's been fun so far
10/19/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Let me set the scene. Yesterday afternoon, hubby is at the computer paying the bills. We recently got rid of our two "cloth" office chairs and replaced them with REALLY NICE, glove leather, completely adjustable rolling chairs, with STRONG ... more
ALL kinds of things. I can't even begin to list. lol.
10/25/2012