How To Get Into Anal Play?

Contributor: Ztellar5 Ztellar5
Hey, I hope everyone is well! I need advice on how to get into anal play. I feel like it is pointless to read endless articles from websites on how to start anal play. I rather ask in a forum like this and get answers from actual people.

I am a bit scared, so I was wondering how to start. Should I use my fingers or start with toys for beginners? Should I have lube if I use my fingers? Any advice you have for a beginner would be appreciate! Thank you in advance.
09/09/2021
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Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
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Originally posted by Ztellar5
Hey, I hope everyone is well! I need advice on how to get into anal play. I feel like it is pointless to read endless articles from websites on how to start anal play. I rather ask in a forum like this and get answers from actual people.

I am ... more
Welcome to the wonderful world of anal play! When I first started with anal play, I just dove right in with a beginner set of butt plugs. You can use your fingers if you desire. Just remember to ALWAYS USE LUBE when inserting anything into your butt!
Start with a smaller plug and work your way up to bigger sizes. I am unable to tell from your profile if you are male or female, but from a man's experience, once you are comfortable with plugs, definitely invest in P-Spot Massagers. Prostate orgasms are fantastic!
09/09/2021
Contributor: Ztellar5 Ztellar5
Quote:
Originally posted by 4ever18
Welcome to the wonderful world of anal play! When I first started with anal play, I just dove right in with a beginner set of butt plugs. You can use your fingers if you desire. Just remember to ALWAYS USE LUBE when inserting anything into your ... more
Thanks for replying! And yes, I am a male. I don’t know why, but I like more the idea of starting with plugs than fingers. But we’ll see hahaha
09/09/2021
Contributor: Croc Croc
Buy about 3 one-litre bottles of water-based lube. You can save them up to 2 years.
If available - buy coconut oil instead, it's the best: not too expensive, body-safe, easier to clean out than silicone lube.
->Yes, use lube with fingers, plugs and dildos.

Butt plugs are not a must. If you think for a sec, you can put a dildo in and enjoy the same sensations, while sitting-lying and watching xxx, or getting off in other ways.
Once you get used, you can start sliding it in and out.
With a BP you only put it in, no movement.

Fingers are better than plugs
- it's your ass, no one's gonna study where it turns, how it contracts, what it does at certain times.
- if you clean out, fingers help find messy bits faster. Manuals recommend to put water inside you, and you easily might have to use 5-15 litres until you are clean. With fingers, you save water to 2-3 litres
- with fingers you can extend them or bunch them up
- and they are a part of your body. Love thyself, darn it!

For anal play you'll need dildos starting with 7" INSERTABLE length. Not shorter. Shorter ones are OK for vaginal, but not enough for backdoor.

If you are going to use suction cup dildos, forget the idea of putting it onto a wall and bucking back.
No, you need a barrier between your legs and the wall.
I use the side of my cupboard. It's not wide, and I can hug it with my legs and get the toy balls deep inside. The wall doesn't let you hug it, you struggle where to place your limbs and can't arch your back.

I always use enemas with warm water
09/10/2021