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Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
So my husband wants me to try anal...again. It just hurts and results in me curled into the fetal position on the bed in front of him every time. After I shoot away from him, and collapse on my face in a scream of pain. So any advice on how to make this easier? Some nights it seems easier than others, just like some nights I don't mind "some anal play", such as a finger or so.

Pit just hurts every time, could I just not be okay with anal ever?
11/20/2011
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Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Cherry21
So my husband wants me to try anal...again. It just hurts and results in me curled into the fetal position on the bed in front of him every time. After I shoot away from him, and collapse on my face in a scream of pain. So any advice on how to make ... more
It takes a LOT of relaxing, and trust. I used to be like you. Then I decided that I really wanted to be able to do it, if only just to let him have his fantasy. I got this DVD and we watched it together, and after a while of practicing the techniques, not only can he do it, but I like it! I even ask for it!
11/20/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
It takes a LOT of relaxing, and trust. I used to be like you. Then I decided that I really wanted to be able to do it, if only just to let him have his fantasy. I got this DVD and we watched it together, and after a while of practicing the ... more
You are a true jem, your man is very lucky.

I suggest also you start using your fingers on yourself, probably while you're in the shower so you have no worries about mess or anything like that and you can just focus on YOU. While you finger your ass, masturbate and make yourself cum. Do this every time for a whole month and from then on you will get aroused anytime something touches your ass. It's self re-programming and association through orgasm.
11/21/2011