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Is your anal play usually planned, or just "if it happens, it happens"?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We tend to preplan all our sexual fun. Have the right toys, the right lubes, the right lingerie on, etc. We discuss, often a day ahead, what we plan or hope to do, and then do it. Sounds "not romantic" to some,but for us, the planning is as much foreplay as anything, and discussing these things is a turn on as well. It also simply takes the stress off, knowing what is "planned" together. Of course. If one of us wants a morning romp, or things just "come up", during the day, they are not planed, but for the most part, we are "ready".

Anyone else pre plan their anal fun, or is it "if it happens, it happens"?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a planner
Bignuf , Strider , Robespierrethecat , ben12 , Cat E. , Sweet-n-Playful
6
No planning, just spontaneous to us.
Artishok , Loriandhubby , Vaginas , Sirena , wwwww
5
Other?
Gunsmoke , Intrepid Niddering , minstrel69 , Supervixen
4
Total votes: 15 (15 voters)
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I try to plan things - but it's hard for 1 to plan for 2 - sometimes the plan works out - sometimes I have to switch in response to her feelings at the time. She has made plans - but its very rare. Since being empty-nesters we will often agree on a day and or time - but not specific activities.

The idea is a good one - I need to explore the possibilities - thanks.
10/29/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
No planning, just spontaneous to us.
10/29/2012
Contributor: ben12 ben12
as we like to be clean,taste nice and have no accidents then planning helps
12/06/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
There is no "us" for me to plan with. If I happen to find myself in a situation where I'm getting into someone's pants and they want anal, I might let them, I might not. It all depends on the situation.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I'm a planner so that wouldn't be spontanious.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
we haven't planned it yet and it's been amazing. so I'm going to continue to not plan lol
12/07/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Sometimes the planning is a part of the foreplay, and sometimes, the spontaneity is really sexy. Depends on the mood.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We tend to preplan all our sexual fun. Have the right toys, the right lubes, the right lingerie on, etc. We discuss, often a day ahead, what we plan or hope to do, and then do it. Sounds "not romantic" to some,but for us, the planning is as ... more
Planned for us
12/07/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
My man and I are long distance, so we don't get to play very often. We spend more time talking about all the things we want to try and how we want to do them and planning new experiences, but when we're together it's almost never planned and always spontaneous.
12/07/2012
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
No planning. It's just a matter of "Hey wanna try this?" for my partner and I.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
We really just listen to our bodies. If it feels right, do it.
12/07/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Shes learned to expect it
12/07/2012