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When my first child was born, she had a whopping 19" head. (Measure that with a tape measure to see the full effect.) She got stuck in the birth canal and the situation escalated to the doctor doing a total midline episiotomy on me. It was a cut completely through to my anal muscle. It took months (around 9) to heal, and I still have scar tissue through my perineum and into my anal wall.

I would really like to be able to one day experience double penetration. Right now I can only handle one really lubed finger, and that is usually quite painful. I breathe, I relax - all the recommended physical activities.

I look at the plugs and probes on EF, but they all seem HUGE.

Any suggestions for what I could get to maybe help this... if there is anything? less

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When my first child was born, she had a whopping 19" head. (Measure that with a tape measure to see the full effect.) She got stuck in the birth canal and the situation escalated to the doctor doing a total midline episiotomy on me. It was a cut completely through to my anal muscle. It took months (around 9) to heal, and I still have scar tissue through my perineum and into my anal wall.

I would really like to be able to one day experience double penetration. Right now I can only handle one really lubed finger, and that is usually quite painful. I breathe, I relax - all the recommended physical activities.

I look at the plugs and probes on EF, but they all seem HUGE.

Any suggestions for what I could get to maybe help this... if there is anything? less

(Graphic description warning)

When my first child was born, she had a whopping 19" head. (Measure that with a tape measure to see the full effect.) She got stuck in the birth canal and the situation escalated to the doctor doing a total midline episiotomy on me. It was a cut completely through to my anal muscle. It took months (around 9) to heal, and I still have scar tissue through my perineum and into my anal wall.

I would really like to be able to one day experience double penetration. Right now I can only handle one really lubed finger, and that is usually quite painful. I breathe, I relax - all the recommended physical activities.

I look at the plugs and probes on EF, but they all seem HUGE.

Any suggestions for what I could get to maybe help this... if there is anything? less

As uncomfortable as it may seem- I'd talk to your gynecologist. I have scarring from when my cervix was removed. I've come to accept that I'll never be able to use many larger toys. I have discussed with my gyno extensively options on how to reduce the pain/stretching techniques. For me, its better to just avoid large toys. BUT as my scarring is vaginal and not anal, there may be a world of difference. I'm not educated in this area enough to really give concrete advice. I apologize for this.

I can tell you Tantus has a plug, the Lil Flirt, which is barely larger than a finger and stays in place surprisingly well. My only gripe with it is that the base is a little large. less

I'd think a silicone plug would help. Especially wearing it around for extended periods of time. But, like I mentioned, I don't have nearly enough education for this to be considered an expert opinion. Just a suggestion.

On another note- holy baby! I know average is right around 14" so bless your heart (and vagina) for delivering vaginally. less