Who first suggested anal sex in your current relationship?

i started talking about it more as a joke than anything but then it started to turn into a possibility and we talked about it together.

I did. I asked him a couple of times, "So, when are you going to give it to me in the ass?" He eventually surprised me with it. Not like, "surprise, there's dick in your butt!" but, we were in the middle of sex and he said, "you know, I think I'm going to have fuck you in the ass..." And I was like, "YEAH!" It was divine.