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Contributor: Trillian Trillian
do you use condems?
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22  (18%)
90  (74%)
9  (7%)
Total votes: 121
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07/05/2011
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07/05/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Not sure how you define it - but anal sex for me is my wife using a toy to penetrate me. The toy is usually glass and we do not use a condom.

I have not had anal sex with my wife - but when I do penetrate her with a finger or small toy, I do not use a condom. If we progress to anal intercourse, I don't expect to use a condom.
07/05/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I are fluid bonded (meaning we have had sexual fluid contact, and do not have any STDs to transmit or worry about.) So, we don't use condoms for anal sex. Our manner of anal is for him to lube and penetrate me with his finger or a toy or his penis. We use only silicone or sometimes silicone/TPR toys, and no one uses the toy in their body except me, so there is no need to use a condom. I have used a condom when testing Sil-A-Gel butt plug, but it is not a toy I use at all now.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
If we were having vaginal before anal, then yes, because my husband already has a condom on. If he goes directly for anal, then he doesn't bother to wear one.
07/05/2011
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Like P'Gell, my husband and I are fluid bonded so no condoms for us.
07/05/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
You can still get sti's / std's
07/05/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Yup, definitely.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
yup that way you don't have a messy clean up, plus you can go from anal to vaginal without having to stop and wash up
07/05/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
do you use condems?
Neither my hubby or I have ever had anal sex outside a long term, committed relationship. Neither of us ever used condoms for this activity. Now, after 31 years of marriage, we cannot have any different germs then each other. No. Never used condoms, and if you are speaking about "for hygiene". Never had an "incident" with anything coming out "soiled", either.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by LostBoy988
You can still get sti's / std's
Never used a condom in over 31 years of marriage to current husband and five years dating, nor the few lovers before him (for anal), and never had a UTI or any other STD (Thank Goodness). Only ONE "yeast infection" in my life was from CANDY...blasted sugar lollipop inserted in Vagina, and that was clearly the cause as the infection was like...IMMEDIATE (a very FEW hours later). Never had anything before or since...and NO sugar goes in "there" now, or ever.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
Not always.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Yes definitely, every time.
07/05/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
We've been together for 13 years, stopped using condoms years ago.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We don't use them.
07/05/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
I dont use condoms w/my current bf. When I was single, I never would have anal sex w/guys but ALWAYS used condoms. Anal sex is a bf privilege. = )
07/05/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i know i know... you should use them. but we're fluid bonded, in a long term relationship, and well, if we try to use a condom...
we aint having sex. he cant get it up.


honestly. i hate condoms.

yeah thats right, i said it.

07/05/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
we have not used a condom for years.
07/06/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
No it's just me and my male friend we're both clean. I know when he's on his way so I take several enimas to make sure I'm completely cleaned out by the time he gets to the house, neither one of us can stand scat.
07/06/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i know i know... you should use them. but we're fluid bonded, in a long term relationship, and well, if we try to use a condom...
we aint having sex. he cant get it up.


honestly. i hate condoms.

yeah thats right, i said it.

Same with us. When we have other partners, condoms are always used for penetrative sex (except bj's).
07/06/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i know i know... you should use them. but we're fluid bonded, in a long term relationship, and well, if we try to use a condom...
we aint having sex. he cant get it up.


honestly. i hate condoms.

yeah thats right, i said it.

My other is the same way! Once wrapped, there's no way there's going to be action! lol
07/06/2011
Contributor: jg19 jg19
Quote:
Originally posted by newlady
My other is the same way! Once wrapped, there's no way there's going to be action! lol
I think everyone hates condoms if they didnt numb the feeling so much i think aids wouldnt be such a problem all over the world. On the subject of using condoms during anal im not sure ive always assumed my wife and i would if she decides she is into "full on" anal sex but we might not its still open for discussion.
07/06/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Yes, always.
07/07/2011
Contributor: boobookittyfuk boobookittyfuk
Sometimes. It depends on our mood.
07/08/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
My wife and I aren't into anal, but if we ever start I definitely won't wear a condom.
07/09/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I've done it both ways before, but on thinking about it further I definitely prefer condoms. Without is just...icky.
07/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
never hes the only one besides me and toys that ive allowed in that hole we are married and fluid bond we dont have diseases so no point
07/12/2011
Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
married and std free so no
07/16/2011
Contributor: jessterinthebed jessterinthebed
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Never used a condom in over 31 years of marriage to current husband and five years dating, nor the few lovers before him (for anal), and never had a UTI or any other STD (Thank Goodness). Only ONE "yeast infection" in my life was from ... more
lol thanks for the tip! really I heard the same thing about flavored lubes cause they have glucose in them.
Sorry for your pain.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I stopped using condoms when I stopped being a teenager.
08/09/2011