Hello and welcome!
First off, it’s wonderful that you know what you want and are eager to explore. We are all for kink and kink expression.
However, if you’re a first timer, you should be super aware that hardcore stuff such acne fantasies are tough, require a high level of trust between partners, stone-clad boundaries and safe words.
Contrary to a popular belief and to how it looks from the outside, in any BDSM scene the Sub has all the power, they decide what goes down and how and when it stops, while the Dom has their trust and a shit ton of responsibility.
That being said, while I for sure encourage you to start looking into the lifestyle and explore things in a bit less empiric and more practical way, I’d suggest staying very cautious and mindful about building trust first, trying things out second.
Amy Dom that’ll start pushing or demanding things from you is a giant red flag.
So, I’d suggest going on big forums like fetish.com or BDSM.com to hang out and chat first. Then, maybe look for a community gathering in your area. It’s better to mingle with the BDSM crowd as a group first, because it’s safer that way and helps you to get a clearer idea of what is going on and how. These events are usually not open to the public, but there must be some newcomer nights or something.
That is where you can start and see where it takes you.
Also, pls remember that some fantasies are just meant to remain fantasies and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Also, maybe take a quick look at our
BDSM safety guide for beginners - there are some practical tips you might find useful.
