BIG O! QUESTION: Is "Coming Together" Possible?

BIG O! QUESTION: Is "Coming Together" Possible?

Stellar Stellar
Dearest Community!
We're all in this together and hunting for the same things: better sex, more pleasure, MORE&BIG. And there's - OMG - the holy grail of good sex, a ultimate sign of intimacy and merely a unicorn:

SIMULTANEOUS ORGASM
A-hem... Is it even possible?
And if it is, HOW THE HECK CAN WE DO THAT?!

We should dig deep into personal experiences and find out whether simultaneous orgasm is a real thing, or just a dream? Please, share your practices and maybe even tips and let's find out all about this amazing achievement.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
It's possible and I've experienced it
20  (77%)
It's possible but I've never experienced it
6  (23%)
It's impossible
Total votes: 26
Poll is closed
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Stellar Stellar
Come on, people! Aren't you interested in that matter?
02/10/2016
BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
It's possible and I've done it many times. Often the strategy involves the male partner holding back on his end, and then getting so turned on by myself orgasming that it causes his orgasm at the same time.

What can I say I'm just that sexy.
02/11/2016
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm always delayed behind my husband, as I require much more stimulation than he does to get off. We haven't experienced dual at all no matter the circumstances.
02/11/2016
Rossie Rossie
Yes, simultaneous orgasms are possible. A couple can achieve this with lots of good stimulation for the female during foreplay, followed by sex in a position that enables additional pleasure. I need plenty of stimulation to orgasm but he doesn't. To fix this problem, we use the missionary position; with him leaning in close to me and grinding hard against my clitoral region every time he pushes. He edges himself while he helps build my orgasm.
02/12/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Define simultaneous...

Orgasm at the exact same moment is improbable physiologically (with a high order of probability not to occur). But orgasming together is relatively common as far as I understand the matter.

Women orgasm, muscles of the vagina tighten (twitch, convulse etc) which triggers the male to orgasm through over-stimulation.

I can list facts.

I have also induced my own orgasm moments after my partners and several or my partners have orgasmed as I have shot my load inside them too.

I think the idea of a perfect moment of simultaneous orgasm is just too improbable.
02/14/2016
Peg Peg
We have experienced it only a few times and it is really exciting! The challenge comes from the differences in the amount of stimulation needed for each of us.
02/15/2016
Stellar Stellar
And did some of you try some special techniques when chasing the simultaneous O?
02/16/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by BlackOrchid
It's possible and I've done it many times. Often the strategy involves the male partner holding back on his end, and then getting so turned on by myself orgasming that it causes his orgasm at the same time.

What can I say I'm just that sexy.
Agreed and I think it goes down exactly the way it was explained by BlackOrchid!

On a side note, I have no doubt that you are BlackOrchid .
02/16/2016
RockDoc RockDoc
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
Dearest Community!
We're all in this together and hunting for the same things: better sex, more pleasure, MORE&BIG. And there's - OMG - the holy grail of good sex, a ultimate sign of intimacy and merely a unicorn:

SIMULTANEOUS ...
It is possible. For us, we do it on the edge of the bed. The girl lays down and the guy stands at the edge of the bed. She can put her feet on his hips or wrap her legs around him. Girl uses vibrator and guy controls thrusting so to delay getting off till she gets close. Then, you should be able to hit your mark. Happens for us quite regularly.
02/16/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We thing it's possible but not likely. At least for us. It takes a lot of stimulation for gals compared to most men.
02/16/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by RockDoc
It is possible. For us, we do it on the edge of the bed. The girl lays down and the guy stands at the edge of the bed. She can put her feet on his hips or wrap her legs around him. Girl uses vibrator and guy controls thrusting so to delay getting off ...
We've done this, but in the doggie position.
02/16/2016
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, this has been achieved!
02/16/2016
Stellar Stellar
So these are the tips I was talking about. Do you have some of those up your sleeve when striving for synchro-climax?
I see OH preferring doggy - that's a nice option.
RockDoc also proposed a cliffhanger position - great choice, and adding a vibe is a fabulous idea!
BlackOrchid uses lingering - a smart move!
And Rossie exploits missionary and C-spot stimulation - a surefire way for great feelings
You are full of pleasant surprises, my darlings, and you sure have a lot of experience! So don't be shy, share more techniques.
02/17/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
So these are the tips I was talking about. Do you have some of those up your sleeve when striving for synchro-climax?
I see OH preferring doggy - that's a nice option.
RockDoc also proposed a cliffhanger position - great choice, and adding ...
In the doggie/doggy it much easier to position the Eden Wandlink on her clit when I do my duty.
02/17/2016
Andykh Andykh
The feeling u get when the coming together happens is amazing
02/17/2016
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's certainly possible - but IMO the worst thing you can do is try to make it happen. Just have sex a lot - the percentages will catch up to you! TGIF
02/26/2016
honeybee57 honeybee57
IT CAN BE DONE...WE NEED TO FIND IT OURSELVES FIRST THOUGH
02/26/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It's certainly possible - but IMO the worst thing you can do is try to make it happen. Just have sex a lot - the percentages will catch up to you! TGIF
Sounds like a plan
02/27/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds like a plan
Plan "O"gasm.
03/23/2016
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Unique posters: 13