I’ve never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t feel much and then when I do it’s for a few seconds or it’s overstimulating and uncomfortable. My partner has tried playing with my clit while he fucks me but I get overstimulated. I’ve tried different positions. Nothing works. Help!!
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Can’t Orgasm
cumtastic
12/31/2022
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cumtastic
I’ve never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t feel much and then when I do it’s for a few seconds or it’s overstimulating and uncomfortable. My partner has tried playing with my clit while he fucks me but I get
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I’ve never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t feel much and then when I do it’s for a few seconds or it’s overstimulating and uncomfortable. My partner has tried playing with my clit while he fucks me but I get overstimulated. I’ve tried different positions. Nothing works. Help!!
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I believe that spending some time exploring your body and interests helps find those spots that respond to stimulation. After you learn to bring yourself to orgasm, you'll be able to practice the knowledge with your partner.
Come and see some truly useful tips shared by the community in this thread; I hope it will help you.
01/04/2023
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Maybe try experimenting with different things solo. You don’t have to tell him what or when you’re going to spent some time exploring your body. Maybe some just soft music just to calm your anxiety a bit. That probably plays a role in it. You having anxiety over not having an orgasm or maybe how he feels. Especially if he’s voiced being upset or thinking he’s inadequate or something. The anxiety of not wanting him to think it’s him or upset him. But I would definitely just take some time with yourself. Try stimulating different spots of your body. No one says it has to be vaginal intercourse only for you to have an orgasm. There’s nipple orgasms, anal, simply just touch can get people to climax. You are human and you are a woman. We as women sometimes put a lot of pressure on ourselves and always in our heads. Which makes sex a chore in a sense. Maybe try different toys, clit stimulator with multiple different functions, clit and gspot toy, anal sex, anal plugs, nipple clamps, different lubes(don’t forget the lube!!), there are so many different options and you don’t have to just stick with ONE thing. If it takes multiple things to get you there then that’s just more fun! Think of it that way. You’re not cheating if you are exploring your own body. Just throwing that out there. Just in case. Lol don’t be ashamed either. Try to wind down beforehand.
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cumtastic
I’ve never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t feel much and then when I do it’s for a few seconds or it’s overstimulating and uncomfortable. My partner has tried playing with my clit while he fucks me but I get
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more
I’ve never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t feel much and then when I do it’s for a few seconds or it’s overstimulating and uncomfortable. My partner has tried playing with my clit while he fucks me but I get overstimulated. I’ve tried different positions. Nothing works. Help!!
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GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD! Sex is supposed to be fun. Think naughty or not at all. Lol hope this helps!
01/07/2023
As another person said, take time to explore your body. Use different things, from your fingers to toys, heck even try the shower head! I dated a woman who's parents were super religious and told her if she touched herself she was going to hell, only whores have orgasms, you're a slut if you masturbate.... Terrible stuff. Over the course of 3 months we worked together and slowly got her out of her shell. When she had her first orgasm (mind you this was 38 years in the making) she looked like a demon was being exorcised from her body but her post orgasmic glow practically lit up the room. Try putting a dab of lube on the hood of your clit then slowly and gently rub to let the sensation build. This was her starting point and she did it while listening to erotica being read on audiobooks. Hope this helps! Please keep us posted!
12/17/2023
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