How have your orgasms changed as you've gotten older?

Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Actually update...apparently if you have an underlying but not massive bacterial imbalance you can experience difficulties in the orgasm department. It can also cause you to dry out quicker. Add to that the fact that BC pills can interfere as well ... more
Yay!!! If I may ask, how did you rectify the bacterial issue?
12/21/2010
Contributor: zoobamafooba zoobamafooba
mine have gotten longer to reach and not as intense. maybe it is stress with school? i am hoping so! i would hate to think i am desensitizing myself.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Mine have gotten harder to achieve, due to multiple surgeries on my cervix. However, I've also learned more about my body and my sexuality, so they've also gotten more intense and take longer to recover from
12/21/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by PussyGalore
Yay!!! If I may ask, how did you rectify the bacterial issue?
My guess is eating plenty of healthy yogurt and making sure to cure yeast infections and not to douche (because they can cause infections or worse from forcing bacteria further into the vaginal canal) for cleaning.
12/22/2010
Contributor: MaryA MaryA
I've been actively masturbating since I was 11, and while I could have a couple dozen orgasms at a time throughout my teen years, they began lessening and becoming much more intense. I'm 26 now and have pretty earth-shattering orgasms, the kind I never would have dreamed of ten years ago
01/25/2011
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
In the nine years since my first the intensity has increased, even when I use primitive techniques I developed at the beginning. The timing is pretty much the same. I masturbated more before getting a laptop - now I'm sitting in front of it all the time and I'm less likely to go for a second (and third) orgasm.
02/11/2011
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
It's something I've pondered on recently, especially with playing with my toys and analyzing feelings for reviews. But my orgasms don't come as quickly as they used to when I was a teenager. At least they're definitely more satisfying ... more
I am able to tell the difference between and have several types of orgasms now. Way more intense as I get older.
02/18/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
My orgasms take a VERY long time when achieved through penetration and of course, not so long for clitoral.. it's kind of awful actually. I never get to orgasm with my partner and always alone. =( he doesn't always have the patience to deal with it.
02/18/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Airekah
My orgasms take a VERY long time when achieved through penetration and of course, not so long for clitoral.. it's kind of awful actually. I never get to orgasm with my partner and always alone. =( he doesn't always have the patience to deal with it.
What about him going down on you before you start PIV sex? Until you come. That's what we do, along with toy play and it's amazing. We always change things up, and stopping and starting every activity, so I have a chance to Come before he does usually works well for us.

I personally wouldn't let him get away with letting me come alone all the time, unless I chose to.

A good sit-down with your man is in order. You deserve just as much pleasure out of couples sex as he does. Right?
02/18/2011
Contributor: lamb0luv3r lamb0luv3r
I started masturbating when I was fifteen. Now only a few years later, while an orgasm is easier to achieve since I know a little more about stimulating myself, I have found that they are a lot weaker now than they were when I started out. I'm planning to buy my first vibrator in a few days so maybe I'll find that I've just gotten too used to my fingers.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
They just keep getting better and better...
03/09/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Generally yes they take a little longer but I have more control as well so it's a trade off. You can basically "manipulate" yourself better and build up the orgasms better with experience and that leads to some mind blowing orgasms
03/09/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
No major differences, but it feels like it takes longer for some reason- maybe because I know what is coming and am impatient.
03/27/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
When I was young the sex felt good, but I never actually had orgasms till mid 30's.They were great then! IN early 40's I Went without sex for awhile. Now in my late 40's orgasms come faster and easier than they ever did! (With toys) Wish it had always been this way! Now, all I need is a vigorous man and I'll be set!
03/27/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
It takes much longer now.
04/06/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
They take longer
04/09/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Definitely better with age. I'm 28 & never had a G-spot orgasm until I was 26, and now it's just the normal occurrence, so yes, I'm enjoying the ride with age so far.
04/09/2011
Contributor: PinkPedal PinkPedal
I almost feel parodied to have an orgasm because I already notice my orgasms are less intense and are harder to get. I have one almost every day and worry by the time I'm 30 I won't be able to have one!
04/11/2011
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I haven't really noticed a difference.
07/02/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
They've gotten better - more intense, and I now have multiples on a regular basis. For me, the time it takes to get there varies from encounter to encounter, but isn't an absurdly long amount of time. (Not that I've actually timed it, mind you. lol) When I was in my 20's I pretty much never had orgasms, so this is a wonderful change for me!
07/03/2011
Contributor: Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
They've gotten better for me. I've a;ways be able to orgasm easily but over time I've been able to relax more and enjoy the ride.
07/03/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
I would say they are more intense, and I would attribute this to the fact that I understand my body more and know what feels great to make me climax
07/03/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
It's something I've pondered on recently, especially with playing with my toys and analyzing feelings for reviews. But my orgasms don't come as quickly as they used to when I was a teenager. At least they're definitely more satisfying ... more
my orgasms have gotten way better as I've gotten older. I am a lot more in tune to my body and also my g-spot. I've had some really big orgasms the last few years and even been able to squirt.
07/03/2011
Contributor: jackie68 jackie68
My orgasms may take longer but they are so worth the wait and the work! I am expriencing things that I have never felt before. I am even having more intense vaginal orgasms during intercourse! This is definitely the best thing about getting older!
07/16/2011
Contributor: Powder Powder
Mine have become harder to achieve, or almost instant. As for intensity, it changes depending on how long ago my last one was and how into it I was.
07/18/2011
Contributor: lacybutton lacybutton
The better I know my body now, the better my orgasms have become.
09/20/2011
Contributor: sjclayton2912 sjclayton2912
Definitely have became more intense and do require longer to recover from
04/06/2012
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
It's something I've pondered on recently, especially with playing with my toys and analyzing feelings for reviews. But my orgasms don't come as quickly as they used to when I was a teenager. At least they're definitely more satisfying ... more
I don't believe our orgasms, my wife and mine, have changed so much. I suppose what has changed is how we go about achieving them. When I was quite a bit younger, I was more apt to achieve an orgasm hastily. So, I was more about my needs than my wife's needs. Body positioning has changed as well due to normal body aging. So, I like to think we are more appreciative of each other's needs today. That has not changed our orgasms, other than to better appreciate them.
04/05/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
It's something I've pondered on recently, especially with playing with my toys and analyzing feelings for reviews. But my orgasms don't come as quickly as they used to when I was a teenager. At least they're definitely more satisfying ... more
Mine take longer to achieve now, but are more intense. I highly suggest the Hitachi wand!!
04/11/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
It's something I've pondered on recently, especially with playing with my toys and analyzing feelings for reviews. But my orgasms don't come as quickly as they used to when I was a teenager. At least they're definitely more satisfying ... more
They're infinitely better, more complex, and more intense!
04/12/2013