We are incredibly talkative when we are having sex! My honey needs that type of interaction and I love it! It took me along time to get comfortable enough to start talking dirty back to him, but once I did, look out! Most of the time, he starts with a narration of a fantasy scenario, telling it like a story folding out in front of us. The fantasies are sometimes his, sometimes mine and most of the time a steamy combination of both. When I finally got the nerve to start talking dirty to him, I didn't know how to start my narration because he is so skilled in that department and his imagination is far greater than mine! He patiently encouraged me by asking me questions about the story he was telling at the time. Eventually, it turned into a Mad Libs type of deal where we "round robin" turns adding things to the scenario while we are having sex. I think it's a great way to get into the mind of your partner and see what they really want! less

It is, and if you are too shy to give feedback or ask your partner to do something, you can narrate it in the fantasy and they tend to respond by acting it out for you! This is how my guy taught me how to give head exactly the way he enjoys it and has always wanted a girl to blow him resulting in the compliment that I have given him the top blowjob of his life to date (mind you that he knows I like to top every experience and always aspire to make everything even better the next chance I get). And for my benefit, I have narrated exactly how I want to be eaten out while he is doing it. We speak in first person most of the time, but in past tense, like it already happened. For example I would tell him, "and then you began to lick the slit of my pussy from the very top and the way to my taint in one smooth motion, going faster each time. When you knew i couldn't take it anymore, you parted my lips, found my clit and sucked hard while pulling out a little bit giving me the most amazing pleasure I had ever had.". Since it sounds like you don't like it when a partner talks to you a certain way, you can also narrate what your lover says to you when you are talking through a fantasy, phrases you like, things you would love to hear at what time, ect... If first person is still too much for you, try telling a story where you are not the protagonist, telling it about somebody else gives you more freedom and a little more confidence to say what you want to without the embarrassment! I think you will find that your lover is MORE than happy to hear what you have to say and really excited to do anything you (or the character in your narration) would like! less

For 22+ years it was all hush hush - with the kids living at home. But we're empty-nesters now and the volume keeps going up.

It started when my wife was finally able let loose when having her multiple orgasms. Not 'talk' in the literal sense. But as someone opined; "A woman is like a piano - touch her properly and she'll make beautiful music!" Very descriptive of my girl.

With that as a starting point - I've been encouraging her to do more. She's gotten very good at talking during sex! Certainly better than me - I'm the quiet type - but working on coming out of my shell! It's especially effective when she's taking the Dom role - it's mostly firm direction mixed with some taunting and mild humiliation. less

I mean dirty talk while having intercourse.
Anyone doing or enjoying this ? And what do you typically talk about ?

I do it quite often. Maybe 66%- 80% of the time.
Sometimes, it's "Do you want it harder ? Would you like it deeper? "

Or most often ask her if she would like a certain male sex performers or certain celebrity to take you ? Want to have someone else join us in bed ?
etc etc

I know she enjoys it because usually she will start bucking faster or squeeze me with her strong vag muscles.

Any comments ?
Is this more a male thing or do females like to do this also ? less

I love talking during sex, and I know it drives my partner wild to be degraded and humiliated with dirty talk. Occasionally thinking of things to say can prove a challenge when the sex gets really intense but in general I try to continue speaking.

She loves being called degrading names during sex (like slut, whore, ect) and loves when I ask her questions about what she did wrong and why she should be punished. I also make her degrade herself by yelling that she's my whore or cumslut.

As for her, she doesn't speak much during sex unless prompted. I don't know whether this is specific to our interests though or common. less

It is! I'd recommend giving it a try if you haven't before. You might find that you really enjoy it.

Ohh I like that. We have nights when we dirty talk all night -- basically she acts like my slave and does what she's told. We have never done it for a full day though. I'll have to bring it up. Thanks for the idea! less