Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

This is more info than you or anyone else needed but you haven't lived till you've heard the sounds of pleasure coming from your partner during a rimming session. For bonus points, try rubbing her clit during the session also. Once you both comfortable with the idea and after a shower, give it a shot but let her know what's going down first (you) and let her call the shots. It's hotter that way! less

This is more info than you or anyone else needed but you haven't lived till you've heard the sounds of pleasure coming from your partner during a rimming session. For bonus points, try rubbing her clit during the session also. Once you both comfortable with the idea and after a shower, give it a shot but let her know what's going down first (you) and let her call the shots. It's hotter that way! less

Nah, its just another weekend over here. I do try to push the limits whenever able though. I admit, what I suggested isn't for everyone and if you aren't comfortable with it, by all means don't do it. Play whichever way makes both you and your chosen partner or partners happy. less

Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

OMG!!! I lovvvvvvve the texture on that Icicles glass! But alas, no longer available - bummer.

Check out this texture:

Brush G-spot 100 strokes every night before bedtime

This is the only dildo I have that I enjoy. In fact, I easily find my G-spot due to the texture & it's a matter of just
1-2 minutes - YES minutes, just 1 or 2 minutes & my G-spot is pulsing. Mama! less

Sadly, I'm a horrible teacher, but, I really do appreciate the compliment. Flattery will get you everywhere. It is probably better that way as I am here to learn.

Speaking of which, would of the ladies care to share any techniques or methods they or their female friends prefer or would like a partner to perform? I hope that isn't asking too much. Let me rephrase my request, if you ladies could give your partner explicit directions on what to do, what would they be? less