Do you tell your partner if she gives bad head?

Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
Men do you tell a partner if she is bad at giving head?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
Rossie , SecretKinksters , ejrbrndps , Stinkytofu10 , OhMy! , Missmarc , Lavendar , pinkpottergirl , Pi , potstickers , Scrawberry78 , HeartThrobby , gsfanatic , konicaguy , LeeBee , Trysexual , x203
17  (85%)
No
RonLee , Gunsmoke , TheirPet
3  (15%)
Total votes: 20
Poll is closed
06/27/2012
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Answering for my husband. He'll let me know if what I'm doing doesn't make him feel good, and I'm totally all right with that; I'll do the same if whatever he does to me is not to my liking also. Good communication = good sex.
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Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I have in the past. I didnt come out and say it, it was more like some constructive criticism.
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Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
I've never gotten bad head
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Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Men do you tell a partner if she is bad at giving head?
I would, but she gives great head.
06/27/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Answering for my husband. He'll let me know if what I'm doing doesn't make him feel good, and I'm totally all right with that; I'll do the same if whatever he does to me is not to my liking also. Good communication = good sex.
Absolutely agree, in part.
I would however, be kind and give guidance and instruction on how to do it the way I like it. I would of course, expect the same sort of guidance from my partner.
It would be, I think... impolite to actually say that your partner is "bad" at something so giving on their part.
06/27/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Honestly it's never happened. My wife is skilled and attentive. Sometimes it's just not how want to orgasm - so I'll change things around to do something else.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
Yeah, my boyfriend would let me know if I wasn't doing it the right way......but I always know what to do
08/14/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yea, it's better to let your partner know so she can change instead of suffering something that should be nice
08/14/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Men do you tell a partner if she is bad at giving head?
If she doesn't know, you've got to tell her. She can't fix what she isn't aware of...
08/15/2012
Contributor: LeeBee LeeBee
Yes. And then I feel BAD about it, but it doesn't exactly happen often. But I feel terrible every time I do. ; A ;
08/17/2012
Contributor: LeeBee LeeBee
Yes. And then I feel BAD about it, but it doesn't exactly happen often. But I feel terrible every time I do. ; A ;
08/17/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I won't tell her she is bad, I will instruct her the way I like it.
08/17/2012
Contributor: gavind gavind
Telling her it's bad is like an insult. I would gently say like " it's better this way".

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08/17/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
Its better to guide them instead of saying that theyre bad at it
08/17/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I wouldn't tell someone they're bad at it. I would emphasize what they do is good, or provide suggestions.
08/17/2012