If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
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Before receiving oral, do you need to freshen up?
07/27/2011
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07/27/2011
If he was adamant about it I don't see why not.
07/27/2011
My wife will insist on freshening up even though I tell her it's not necessary.
07/27/2011
I have to freshen up or im to worried to enjoy it.
07/27/2011
I don't worry about it. He's smelled the worst when I had a case of bacterial vaginosis I couldn't shake to save my life. NOTHING smells worse than that, nothing. Not that my scent or taste was ever a problem before that, he's always been really into it.
07/27/2011
We've been together long enough that if he went down there and it needed a freshening he'd tell me.
07/27/2011
I freshen up.
He mentioned that he doesn't like the taste, well more like the after taste. He said he gets a metallic taste. I don't get what he is talking about because I do test myself out before he goes down on me. He has cleared it up recently and told me it wasn't so much of a taste issue. He said it just makes his tongue feel weird. Made me super self conscious and even though he likes doing it I always assume he does it to make me happy and doesn't really care for it.
He mentioned that he doesn't like the taste, well more like the after taste. He said he gets a metallic taste. I don't get what he is talking about because I do test myself out before he goes down on me. He has cleared it up recently and told me it wasn't so much of a taste issue. He said it just makes his tongue feel weird. Made me super self conscious and even though he likes doing it I always assume he does it to make me happy and doesn't really care for it.
07/27/2011
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
07/27/2011
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Same here, maybe if I just ran 5 miles, otherwise I'll stay as is
Originally posted by
Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
07/27/2011
I'm fine with just being as is. I do not expect the person I'm with to wash before I give them oral, so they should not expect it from me. If we're both properly cleaned and hygienic, then I see no problem.
07/27/2011
I don't mind if a partner doesn't wash straight before - as long as I know their hygiene standards!
But I want to freshen up so I feel confident, directly before a partner performs oral on me.
But I want to freshen up so I feel confident, directly before a partner performs oral on me.
07/27/2011
I don't like receiving oral, so other.
07/27/2011
I would feel most comfortable if I got to freshen up first. I wouldn't mind letting a partner go down on me on the spot, but it would just depend.
07/27/2011
Normally I'm fine with it. If I had gotten sweaty I'd want to go clean up first though.
07/28/2011
I'll pretty much always want to go freshen up, but he sometime insists that it's fine and that we should just get on with it
07/28/2011
I personally freshen up everytime because it makes me feel better.
07/28/2011
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I don't care either as giver or receiver, but Mrs. Lust definitely wants to freshen up before she lets me go south.
Originally posted by
Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
07/28/2011
I prefer to freshen up, even though the boyfriend insists its fine as is
07/28/2011
I don't mind her being slightly sweaty, (just a little bit turns me on actually) but keep in mind I mean mildly and within a few hours of her last shower. I think she feels the same way. I think though that her bigger hang up is that she thinks I do it to make her happy when I actually do it for myself as much as for her. I wish she would let me more often.
07/28/2011
He really hates oral taste so I always freshen up to make it as pleasant as possible
07/28/2011
I have to wash up.
07/29/2011
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Yeah, the same goes for me. Only if I was doing something previously and got all sweaty and gross.
Originally posted by
Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
07/29/2011
I would rather freshen up but if he really wants to in the heat of the moment, I don't fight him.
He says I am so sexy coming from the gym but I invite him to the shower with me.
He says I am so sexy coming from the gym but I invite him to the shower with me.
07/29/2011
It depends on what I have been doing. If I have been in the yard gardening all day in the hot sun, yeah, I need to shower. If I just got home from work, probably not.
If I am a sweaty mess, I need a shower prior to an sex happening, oral or otherwise; unless we are both sweaty messes, then it doesn't matter to me.
If I am a sweaty mess, I need a shower prior to an sex happening, oral or otherwise; unless we are both sweaty messes, then it doesn't matter to me.
07/29/2011
I'm usually pretty clean down there so no worries I shower everyday
07/29/2011
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Pretty much this. I'm not going to worry about it too much.
Originally posted by
Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
07/29/2011
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I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the sound of talking like this.)
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
My wife will insist on freshening up even though I tell her it's not necessary.
I think we women were raised with so much shame about our bodies in general and our genitals specifically, that we feel we have to do this. At least that's the way I feel.
Like some of the men have said, most men actually LOVE going down on their partners. Believe me, nothing makes a woman happier than to be told her man (or woman) loves to go down on her. My Man frequently tells me he does it because he LOVES to, and it feels so good to know he loves it.
Guys, TELL your partner you love it. You'll make her day, and most likely get laid more often.
07/29/2011
We don't bother freshening up; it's a waste of time.
07/29/2011
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Bulls-eye - as usual! Have a great weekend
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the
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I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the sound of talking like this.)
I think we women were raised with so much shame about our bodies in general and our genitals specifically, that we feel we have to do this. At least that's the way I feel.
Like some of the men have said, most men actually LOVE going down on their partners. Believe me, nothing makes a woman happier than to be told her man (or woman) loves to go down on her. My Man frequently tells me he does it because he LOVES to, and it feels so good to know he loves it.
Guys, TELL your partner you love it. You'll make her day, and most likely get laid more often. less
I think we women were raised with so much shame about our bodies in general and our genitals specifically, that we feel we have to do this. At least that's the way I feel.
Like some of the men have said, most men actually LOVE going down on their partners. Believe me, nothing makes a woman happier than to be told her man (or woman) loves to go down on her. My Man frequently tells me he does it because he LOVES to, and it feels so good to know he loves it.
Guys, TELL your partner you love it. You'll make her day, and most likely get laid more often. less
07/29/2011