cum or not cum that is the question.

Contributor: Kacee Kacee
My boyfriend and I are at odds on this. I need another females point of view. Maybe it is me, I don't know as I really have no one to talk to about this. When I give my boyfriend a blow job, (I do enjoy doing so very much), I don't allow him to come in my mouth. Heres why, I have a very weak gag reflex I can't even eat certain foods because so. I feel bad actually horrible because my partner thinks I am rejecting him.
What have others done to allow them to be able to receive the cum of there partners without gaging. Again it is not the idea of what is going into my mouth it is truly the texture.
Any help would be gratefully appreciated. As I do want to be a better lover.
Thank you so much!!!!
08/11/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Look, if you don't want to do it, don't do it. However, to get over gagging, I've found the best thing to do is gag yourself as much as possible and learn to control your reaction.

If he wants you to do something you don't want to do, tell him to get over it because you, like all self respecting people, have boundaries that should be respected.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
If you're going to gag, ok. If you are trying to learn to deal with it, try chasing it with Coke--that's what my gf does.
08/12/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Endocott
If you're going to gag, ok. If you are trying to learn to deal with it, try chasing it with Coke--that's what my gf does.
Ha, like chasing the shooter. That's funny.
08/12/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Kacee
My boyfriend and I are at odds on this. I need another females point of view. Maybe it is me, I don't know as I really have no one to talk to about this. When I give my boyfriend a blow job, (I do enjoy doing so very much), I don't allow ... more
I actually have a huge problems with texture too! but i don't have any problem with the texture of cum, so i know what you mean with the texture though! i really don't know what to tell you about this!
08/20/2011
Contributor: Sissypussi Sissypussi
Quote:
Originally posted by Kacee
My boyfriend and I are at odds on this. I need another females point of view. Maybe it is me, I don't know as I really have no one to talk to about this. When I give my boyfriend a blow job, (I do enjoy doing so very much), I don't allow ... more
Hello Kacee, try practicing with artificial Cum (there is a recipe on Youtube) If you can get used to swallowing the artificial Cum, then you can try the real stuff. If taste is a problem with real Cum, there are many flavored lubes (found here) that can help with that. I hope I was helpful?! (please let me know)
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