I have never cum from oral

Contributor: siriussternfan siriussternfan
I have received quite a few bjs in my day but not once have ever came from them. I find myself getting bored. It is a good leeway into sex but wish they would make me cum. I don't know if its just me or these girls just don't know how to do it? I feel bad not being able to give them my cum. The girl I am with now actually gets frustrated at the fact I cant. Anyone have any tips for things I could do to make it feel better or anything I can say to her without hurting her feelings?
08/22/2012
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08/22/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Well, I'm a girl and I can't cum from oral. It just doesn't do anything for me. I'd assume that the same can be true for guys. Maybe it's just not something you'll be able to orgasm from?

We have the best luck if my husband "fucks" my mouth. That way he can control how fast things go instead of me trying to read his mind. You could try that and see if it helps.
08/22/2012
Contributor: siriussternfan siriussternfan
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Well, I'm a girl and I can't cum from oral. It just doesn't do anything for me. I'd assume that the same can be true for guys. Maybe it's just not something you'll be able to orgasm from?

We have the best luck if my ... more
Yeah I have tried that with the current girl and it does feel a lot better, but she isn't into it that much. Maybe I will have to get her drunk first lol.
08/23/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I can't cum from oral alone. As Kira said, having my mouth fucked is a lot easier then trying to read his mind and knowing when he is close to cumming. He used to not be able to cum with just my mouth alone, but we conquered that quite recently and now it just happens easily. I think maybe it is a routine that guys have, using their hands or ect ect and they are just so used to it, they don't know any other way. Now that he knows another way, it is simple. Maybe try not to think about it and clear your mind.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
i can definitely cum from oral over and over and never had trouble getting a guy to either LOL guess i'm one the lucky ones!
08/23/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
I can cum from oral but it takes a long time. If I fuck my wife's mouth it happens much easier. It feels amazing to cum in my wife's mouth. How ever since she does not like it the great feeling turns into a downer when she has to get up and spit the cum out so we don't do it very often.
08/23/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by siriussternfan
I have received quite a few bjs in my day but not once have ever came from them. I find myself getting bored. It is a good leeway into sex but wish they would make me cum. I don't know if its just me or these girls just don't know how to do ... more
I've never had a problem getting my guys to cum. You might try giving tips during it about where you like it or how fast etc. Also some women don't seem to use their tongue which makes all the difference. Besides that, I've heard uncut guys have some issues with this, but it's only rumor since I've only had circumcised guys.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
It is rare that I cum from oral. It usually takes some sort of other stimulation. Not that I don't enjoy getting head but it is more of a relaxing thing than a climaxing thing.
08/24/2012