Is there any possible romantic way to . . .

Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I don't see how it can be all that romantic... but then I don't like giving head anyway to begin with.
07/30/2012
Contributor: ijustgotta ijustgotta
Take your time and romance the shit out of his dick!
07/30/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I think so, but maybe I just have a nontraditional definition of romantic.
07/30/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
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Originally posted by Ryuson
I feel like the connection is romantic, and if you take it slow can be really sweet, but that it really depends on the couple!
I agree it can't be rushed and I feel like almost any sexual connection can be romantic with the right person.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
sure it can!
07/30/2012
Contributor: pyratess pyratess
definitely!
07/30/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I guess the gentle and slow method would work.
07/30/2012
Contributor: amie.snape amie.snape
It is the connection that is romantic.
07/30/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Eye contact and sweet gestures help a lot.
07/30/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
You can, but it's about as much about the time you've been spending together, maybe what you were wearing, the atmosphere and connection. It's easier for it to be fun, sexy and playful than romantic, but it is possible.
08/05/2012
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Take it slow. Pretty much any (consensual) sexual activity can be romantic if done right.
08/16/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I think it can be romantic. Perhaps light some candles. Be a bit more aggressive. Lead him to bed. Massage and caress him and slowly and eventually work your way down his body till you give him a blowjob. That would be romantic in my opinion. (Also could be romantic with a blindfold and maybe some restraints)
10/02/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
yea it can be romantic but in my relationship It's usually not
10/07/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
If you make it a process, an act of pure love and devotion to him, it can be an incredibly romantic, sensual, sexy experience. In fact, it's why I love giving oral so much! It can also be just an act, done just for a release, but it rarely is when there is love between myself and my partner. I really think you have to be in love to give a loving/romantic blow job.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Lori Gonzales Lori Gonzales
nasty
10/11/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
yes it can be
10/12/2012
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I think there is. It really depends on the two people involved. It's a very intimate act and if it is looked at in such a way, it can be extremely romantic. It can also be just hot and sexy. With the same guy I can play up both sides. I can pull him aside, drop to my knees and talk dirty while giving him a naughty blowjob, or I can slide up to him, kiss him all over, worship him and give him my mouth, looking up at him. Usually I can tell when he feels romantic about it because he will gently stroke my hair, hold my hands, look into my eyes. He usually tones down the language and says sweeter things rather than trashy things. I love it both ways, really and I think he does, too.
10/14/2012
Contributor: kmarsico kmarsico
I can see how it can be found not romantic, but ifyou do it a certain way it can be romantic
10/15/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
yes theere is a certian connection
10/26/2012
Contributor: Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Yes, sucking a dick can be done romantically.
10/26/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I think it could be if you take it really slowly and the focus is more on pleasuring someone you love instead of orgasm.
10/29/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
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Originally posted by The Curious Couple
As a few people have already said, a romantic blowjob isn't about getting off, it's about the connection between the giver and the receiver.
this exactly.
10/29/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I don't think so, but then again, romance is subjective isn't it
10/29/2012
Contributor: hem hem
Still struggling with this myself!
10/30/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I've definitely given my partner romantic blowjobs before, sensual, lots of rubbing his legs and stomach and kisses, they're the best blowjobs!
10/30/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I don't know. Every bit of it feels romantic to me. But I have never done it to any other male. Only the one I love. If I didn't mean it, I can see the act being unromantic.
10/30/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
It can def be quite romantic
10/30/2012
Contributor: Xarien Xarien
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I absolutely think it can be done romantically.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Bigsex Bigsex
I think it's always romantic but when she starts getting slutty with it is when I lose it
07/14/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
give a blowjob?

I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't seem as such.

So, what do you think?
I think the act of giving head itself is'nt very romantic, but the favor may be given for romantic reasons. The connection between two partners can also be romantic, but I agree that the act itself still is not.
08/03/2020