Oral sex during sleep

Oral sex during sleep

SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
So about a month ago, my husband started giving me head in my sleep to wake me up. It didn't bother me a bit, and I woke up in such bliss... I loved it.

I decided to give him oral in his sleep and he woke up looking frightened, but then said he had the best orgasm of his life in my mouth. But then later that day he said it freaked him out a little. Does this mean not to do it again? He still mentioned it was the best orgasm of his life. I mean, what's the worst that could happen?
02/02/2012
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Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
So about a month ago, my husband started giving me head in my sleep to wake me up. It didn't bother me a bit, and I woke up in such bliss... I loved it.

I decided to give him oral in his sleep and he woke up looking frightened, but then ...
ask him
02/02/2012
Ash1141 Ash1141
My husbands truly enjoys this but I usually rouse him by playing with it first with my hand. He "half" wakes up and then I move down with my mouth.
02/02/2012
Funtastic Funtastic
I would ask him, if he is open to it again, then its a go.
02/02/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Darklyvan
ask him
This. Just ask him. This is something you should both be able to talk about with each other honestly. If it's something that really freaks him out and you ignore that part, then you're not respecting him at all. But if you ask him and he lies about it, then that's on him.
02/02/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Ever hear about that prank people do to a sleeping person, where they put that person's hand in a bowl of warm water and they pee themselves?

...this is why I'm not a fan of waking up receiving oral. I'd hate to get in trouble for an unintended golden shower.
02/02/2012
ninja250 ninja250
Ask him he should let you know.
02/02/2012
mistressg mistressg
Ask him. I've done that for my partners. I think it's fun. And they might jump at first but they have all really liked it.
02/02/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
So about a month ago, my husband started giving me head in my sleep to wake me up. It didn't bother me a bit, and I woke up in such bliss... I loved it.

I decided to give him oral in his sleep and he woke up looking frightened, but then ...
I'd definitely ask. Just bring it up. You can do it and still surprise him. Just say something like "hey, just HOW much did ya like your surprise this AM?" That should be a good enough starter and surely you'll get enough info out of him to know which is best. Honestly, it sounds to me like there's nothing to worry about. I don't know for sure though, but it sounds like he may have meant it startled him, but he really loved it. That's what I would think if my partner said it. Everyone's diff. though. I hope it all goes well! Definitely just bring it back up and ask. You could even say something like "you might just get another surprise," and see how he reacts. If he truly was too freaked out to want it again, that's when he'll more than likely make it clear.

My partner has ALWAYS had this fantasy of me waking him up by having sex with him. We've pretended he was asleep and me wake him up doing him, but he's never actually been asleep. I've woke him up to do it, but I don't ever get on top of him during his sleep because he's so darn paranoid that he starts freaking slinging punches in his sleep. He's punched me in the leg before and many times woke up freaking when I touch him or move around. It's gotten a little scary. Just the other day he asked why I don't ever have sex with him in his sleep and I said "you'd punch my damn lights out!" Lol. I don't know that he would, but it's very likely then he'd feel bad and either I'd kill him or he'd kill himself. Lol. JK.

Anyways, yes, just bring it up. Chances are he'll love you to do it again and maybe now that it's out there and he knows there's a possibility of you doing that, he won't get startled this time.

Best of luck with your sleepy head! Ha. Ha. "Sleepy. Head" did ya get that?
02/03/2012
SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
So I asked him and he said (like someone said above) that it's been a fantasy of his for a very long time. He said that he's really glad that I did it, and that he was hinting at it by doing it to me. Now I'm a bit scared of getting the unexpected golden shower *cough cough* but I did this again tonight and he came more than I've EVER seen a man cum. It was mind blowing.
02/03/2012
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