I have a hard time relaxing when a guy goes down on me. I feel very self conscious and kind of selfish. Even when a guy reassures me that he enjoys it. It has been something I avoid and will do because he asks to do it. I am looking for advice on how to relax and enjoy it.
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Hi, I was wondering is this product soft or is it hard for the material that was made into this product. Some times when the product is hard it kind...
Recommendations for throat numbing?
what do u recommend for throat numbing
Best throat numbing product?
any suggestions for not gagging?
Trick for deep throating anyone?
I recently started trying to deep throat but I gag sometimes. Any tips or tricks to help me? thanks.
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11/26/2010
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Interesting question.
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41knit
I have a hard time relaxing when a guy goes down on me. I feel very self conscious and kind of selfish. Even when a guy reassures me that he enjoys it. It has been something I avoid and will do because he asks to do it. I am looking for advice on how
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I have a hard time relaxing when a guy goes down on me. I feel very self conscious and kind of selfish. Even when a guy reassures me that he enjoys it. It has been something I avoid and will do because he asks to do it. I am looking for advice on how to relax and enjoy it.
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When I go down on iGirl I always have to assure her that I love doing it. If your guy is going down on you sit back and enjoy it. If he reaffirms his joy for burying his face in your pussy then you have to believe him. He's not going to lie about that!
11/26/2010
I use to feel the same. But now when I do get it (which isn't often lol) I make sure to sit back and enjoy it as long as possible.
11/28/2010
If you are self conscious just make sure you are clean before hand and you should be fine
11/29/2010
I'm always really self conscious at first too. I find after a few minutes I get into it and relax. If you're really uncomfortable definitely take a quick trip to the bathroom and make sure you're clean, plus it gives you a minute to breath and focus.
12/02/2010
I feel this way too sometimes. I solved my hygiene issues somewhat by having a quick wash before, but I think the main thing is to realise how important reciprocacy is...if you spend that much time and effort going down on him (and enjoying it!), then you most definitely deserve the same treatment. And if he's more than willing, let him at it without stopping him and see how long he'll go!
12/03/2010
I feel the exact same way. When my boyfriend and I were in a LDR, I'd even have trouble relaxing if it'd been a while since we last saw each other. I find that the more he does it, the more comfortable I feel. Less anxious, easier to enjoy. Best of luck.
12/04/2010
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My man loves it so it keeps me at ease. he practically begs for it!
Originally posted by
41knit
I have a hard time relaxing when a guy goes down on me. I feel very self conscious and kind of selfish. Even when a guy reassures me that he enjoys it. It has been something I avoid and will do because he asks to do it. I am looking for advice on how
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I have a hard time relaxing when a guy goes down on me. I feel very self conscious and kind of selfish. Even when a guy reassures me that he enjoys it. It has been something I avoid and will do because he asks to do it. I am looking for advice on how to relax and enjoy it.
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12/05/2010
I've been cultivating the enjoyment I get out of simple pleasurable things in every day life. (The touch of fabric, the taste of a good meal, a fresh gust of wind on a warm day, etc.) By focusing my mind on these pleasurable sensations, I hope to get more enjoyment out of things that feel good. Also training myself to realize that pleasure in of itself is a worthwhile thing.
Maybe being more mindful of your own experience of pleasure would help you to relax while getting head.
Maybe being more mindful of your own experience of pleasure would help you to relax while getting head.
03/09/2011
I have a hard time relaxing too. I just try to think sexy thoughts.. even though I find the whole thing a bit odd!
02/13/2012
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