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What does a sexual relationship mean to you?

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Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
What is a sexual relationship? Does it mean you have to have sex with someone or does it mean oral, or anal, or cybersex? What do you all think. I will list several different sexually related things. Check which things you think constitute a sexual relationship, view them in term of if they were the only thing you would do with that person would you consider yourself in a sexual relationship. Check as many as you think apply...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Vaginal Sex
42
Anal Sex
38
Oral Sex
41
Anal Play
35
Pegging
27
Mutual Masturbation
37
Fingering
37
Jacking a guy off
37
Sexting
16
Talking Sexually in a Chat Room
5
CyberSex
13
Watching Porn Together
8
Touching (Just touching boobs and dicks)
37
Holding Hands?
7
Kissing
10
Other... Did I miss anything?
Total votes: 390 (44 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Almost everything is a sexual relationship.
08/01/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
whether there is physical contact or not, it can be sexual. The mind is the most powerful sexual organ.
08/01/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I consider pretty much any as a sexual relationship
08/01/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
All except holding hands.
08/01/2010
Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
I think it's funny that holding hands and watching porn together have the same amount of votes. Lol
08/03/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionQT
whether there is physical contact or not, it can be sexual. The mind is the most powerful sexual organ.
Absolutely - just anticipating a peak sexual performance can make it happen and make it better!
08/03/2010
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
This is tough. Nearly all of them are sexual, but a relationship depends on both parties agreeing that there is a relationship. What if you sleep with a guy once and you want to start dating, but he thought it was just a fling? What if you just wanted to have cybersex with a guy once and he keeps contacting you for more? Neither of those are relationships if one person has no interest in repeating the experience.

Cybersex can be part of a sexual relationship just like a one night stand can be part of a sexual relationship, but I don't think that doing any of these things once implies a sexual relationship. Both people have to do the act multiple times or intend to do other sexual activities together in the future for there to be a sexual relationship. But if two people meet online and have cybersex once with no intent to repeat the experience, I wouldn't say they're having a sexual relationship.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
I think it's funny that holding hands and watching porn together have the same amount of votes. Lol
What else is interesting is that there are 32 total voters that obviously didn't all vote that "vaginal sex" and "anal sex" were actually sex.
08/03/2010
Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
I'm surprised oral and vaginal are even but anal isn't up there too. I would think anal and vaginal would have had the most and oral would have just a few less.
08/05/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
theyre all sexual to me
10/11/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I think that when I say I have had sex I refer to vaginal penetration but really sex is more than that.
10/19/2010