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Anyone ever done it "outside" only to find that BUGS ruin the evening or night?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We were just outside on the patio, after watching a July 3rd fireworks show.

It is still almost 90 degrees, the stars are out and our bench cushions are fresh from the wash, so We were going to "go at it" on our private, privacy fenced patio, but the BUGS...mosquitoes and "no see ums" were swarming us...especially, dare I say, our "private parts", despite us being slathered in 100% deet from earlier at the fireworks show. We hightailed it back INTO our bedroom.

Anyone else had this problem? Anyone else, camper or outdoors person, have suggestions on making BUG FREE love outdoors???
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Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We were just outside on the patio, after watching a July 3rd fireworks show.

It is still almost 90 degrees, the stars are out and our bench cushions are fresh from the wash, so We were going to "go at it" on our private, privacy ... more
I am allergic to bees. Yep, one got me-hospital time!! No sex for two days. OOPS>
07/04/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
No, we've never had a problem with bugs while making love outside. Although once I was stung by a bee between my toes after making love in a meadow! Candies sandals with the laces that go up your calf. They were really sexy, but I evidently bothered a bee with my foot while walking from the meadow into the woods, and I got stung between my toes. It was horribly painful.

Not during sex, though.
07/04/2011
Contributor: CafeSabroso CafeSabroso
I've had issues with no-see-ums getting to me during outdoor sex. I generally have a tent to prevent the problem. If you have a tent with a mesh top, it preserves the feeling of being outdoors, but without the distraction of bugs during and the itching afterward.
07/04/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
Well my bf and I have this mesh tent thing in the back yard. We spray bug repellent before we go out and we also keep bug repellents like the clip ons and some other products around in use. We also have two fans inside the mesh roof because the wind keeps the bugs away.
07/04/2011
Contributor: Acorn Acorn
I recently moved to a nice little cottage near the beach with my wife. When we first got here I thought it might be fun to have a go in our private garden. Now that we've been here and know how many spiders are out there we've changed our minds.
07/06/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i've never had that issue. and i've had romps in some pretty crazy places- i must be lucky
07/07/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
I think there are specific hours when bugs are active. Here they are around between 6PM and can persist till 1AM. During tha day or in the morning they are minimal!
07/07/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We were just outside on the patio, after watching a July 3rd fireworks show.

It is still almost 90 degrees, the stars are out and our bench cushions are fresh from the wash, so We were going to "go at it" on our private, privacy ... more
Mahahah yes, bugs and itchy grass.
07/07/2011
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
sorry to hear that. only bugs that bother me are mosquitos but they're a major turn off. so never had problem with sex with them around.
07/22/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Yeahhh, bugs and the like are one of the reasons I keep my sexytimes indoors for the most part
07/22/2011
Contributor: Pinkhare Pinkhare
I had a friend that went out to a soccer field with her boyfriend . In Louisiana there's a tiny red that is commonly chigger [I have no idea what the bug is actually called ] They were both covered in bites .
07/22/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never really had that problem, but I've never done it in the early evening when bugs are always around.
07/22/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Oh yeah, bugs can and do ruin an otherwise terrific experience. Damn biting gnats in the daytime and mosquitoes at night.
07/22/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
We tried citronella oil for a while. It helped some, but it still didn't seem to solve the problem altogether. Most of the time we just wait until we're inside now.
07/25/2011