The New Intimacy

Balancing the books

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Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Wondering if you and your partner are having sex and one of you gets left out of the orgasm party, do you try to finish them later,even the next day, or do you just let it be?
I always felt that you should try to make your partner cum, just to keep them happy, even later, sort of balancing the books so to speak. Would you not feel bad that they did not get off, and WANT to help?
06/18/2013
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Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
If either my wife or I cum before the other, we make sure the other cums before we’re done. If she cums riding on top and I don’t, she’ll let me keep going until I do and any way I want ie. doggystyle, etc. The same goes in reverse. If I cum first, I’ll go down on her, finger her with her using her wand, whatever she wants.
07/07/2013
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I cum easily, so I never have to worry about being in a deficit myself. Actually, when I stop and think about it, I only tend to partner up with other people who cum easily. (Male orgasm is basically my strongest turn-on, and if I was casually dating someone who didn't get off easily I usually wound up feeling sexually disconnected and incompatible, and we wouldn't keep dating.)

So, I guess I insist on my partner coming? And I never really have trouble. Thank goodness.
07/07/2013