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My b/f revealed to me a few months ago that he was a regular sperm donor when he was a college student on the West Coast, this was 13 plus years ago. He said the sperm bank "loved" his genes, background, brains and looks. He considered this
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My b/f revealed to me a few months ago that he was a regular sperm donor when he was a college student on the West Coast, this was 13 plus years ago. He said the sperm bank "loved" his genes, background, brains and looks. He considered this sort of like a part time job; he was told to abstain from ejaculating for three days prior to his visit. That was the most difficult part for him.
Now, I have been thinking that he may be the father to more then one hundred kids!! This is somehow bothering me and social work is my profession!!
Just wondering how any of the community would feel about their man being a sperm donor??
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I think you and your man need to talk to figure out how you both feel about it. He was young and it was a good way to make money, with little effort. College students are always short on cash.
My Man and I saw a show about sperm and egg donation, and I said I could NEVER be an egg donor, because I was worried about someone else raising MY kids, and he said he felt the same way about sperm donation. A lot of guys he went to school with did it, too. (And that was many years ago, before they put a limit on how many babies could come from one donor. Some guys ended up being donators to more than 1,000 children back then.)
If he is OK with it, then it's OK. There's nothing that can be done about it now.
Yeah, I know it would have bothered me if My Man had done this, too. But, it's water under the bridge. Nothing can be done now. I think just resigning yourself to the fact that nothing can be done about it now, chances are they are with good parents, who would not have been able to have a baby otherwise. And, your man's good genes are put to good use.
