Best for sex...Lights BRIGHT, Lights mellow and subdued, or Lights OUT???

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Best for sex...Lights BRIGHT, Lights mellow and subdued, or Lights OUT???

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
How do you enjoy it best???
05/10/2012
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Subdued. We only leave our nightlight on, just enough to see what we're doing.
05/10/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Bignuf
How do you enjoy it best???
No candles or scarfs over lamps, but certainly softer.
05/10/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Subdued, please.

Mulder introduced me to a wonderful dim light called a lava lamp.

(Try it, the lighting is perfect, especially if it's a red one.)
05/10/2012
Contributor: ciderspider ciderspider
I like lower, subdued lights. It kind of sets the mood for me, I guess. I'm also way too clumsy for complete darkness.
05/10/2012
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
lower or off.
05/10/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Daylight is great - but when that's not available candle light is our preference.
05/11/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Daylight is great - but when that's not available candle light is our preference.
agreed! candlelight or daylight
05/12/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
How do you enjoy it best???
Lots of lights!
05/12/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
dark is good, but I can do it with the lights on as well.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Dim. For us this usually means we'll keep the TV/computer monitor on, though generally the screen saver is running. We like to be able to see what we're doing, without having our bright-ass ceiling light shining in our face.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Any is fine with me, don't really have a preference.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
i like the night time, but anytime is good for me
05/13/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I love my butt ugly bed side lamp for the dimmer. It's so perfect for setting the light just right.
05/14/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
We generally have the closet light on. When the ceiling light is on it's too bright if one of us happens to be oriented towards it.
05/14/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Dim light--don't like fumbling around in the dark!
05/16/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Lights on cause I love seeing my man and he loves seeing me
05/16/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Anything, I really don't care. I prefer lights on or on subdued though, because I like watching. XD
05/16/2012
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I like all of the above, really. I like having them on or lowered because I like to watch. I also think that it can be a lot of fun to be in complete darkness and let your other senses take over. It's amazing how good some things can feel when your sense of sight is limited.
05/16/2012
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Subdued lights please.
05/16/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I like lights on because I like to watch. But it's not like I'd want to stop in the middle just to put more lights on.

I prefer some lights, but I don't really care that much.
05/16/2012