How long can you stay without sex? I ca stay without it for a pretty long time, I could go months to a year or longer
Can you stay without sex?
08/22/2011
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I enjoy sex, don't get me wrong, but it is not all that important to me. I am just as content if not more content snuggling and spending time together in other ways.
08/22/2011
Except when unavoidable things (like distance due to employment or vacation) crop up, I would not stay in a relationship where we hadn't had sex for more than a week. If I'm having health problems, he can still cum on my face. If he's having health problems, I could still give him oral (even if it didn't result in orgasm)... or we could at least be present while the healthy one masturbated.
I've had this discussion before each monogamous relationship I've embarked upon.
I guess I should mention that I don't have kids and am not married. I guess those would make me less likely to bail after a week, but I still hope going that long without reaffirming that we love each other never happens, so I never have to find out.
I've had this discussion before each monogamous relationship I've embarked upon.
I guess I should mention that I don't have kids and am not married. I guess those would make me less likely to bail after a week, but I still hope going that long without reaffirming that we love each other never happens, so I never have to find out.
08/22/2011
I can go without penetrative sex for a long time, but not all sexual activities.
08/23/2011
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I am right there with you!!
Originally posted by
Antipova
Except when unavoidable things (like distance due to employment or vacation) crop up, I would not stay in a relationship where we hadn't had sex for more than a week. If I'm having health problems, he can still cum on my face. If he's
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Except when unavoidable things (like distance due to employment or vacation) crop up, I would not stay in a relationship where we hadn't had sex for more than a week. If I'm having health problems, he can still cum on my face. If he's having health problems, I could still give him oral (even if it didn't result in orgasm)... or we could at least be present while the healthy one masturbated.
I've had this discussion before each monogamous relationship I've embarked upon.
I guess I should mention that I don't have kids and am not married. I guess those would make me less likely to bail after a week, but I still hope going that long without reaffirming that we love each other never happens, so I never have to find out. less
I've had this discussion before each monogamous relationship I've embarked upon.
I guess I should mention that I don't have kids and am not married. I guess those would make me less likely to bail after a week, but I still hope going that long without reaffirming that we love each other never happens, so I never have to find out. less
08/24/2011
are you talking about in a relationship?
08/24/2011
Forever if it made him happy!
08/24/2011
Longer than I thought possible, lol. More than a year.
08/24/2011
I can go years without it. Couldn't without my solo play though!
08/24/2011
I assume this is with a partner. My wife doesn't like sex for anything but to get pregnant so I am forced to go long periods of time without it. 11 months is my record.
08/24/2011
I can go without sex for a few months, but my husband can't wait for that long.
08/24/2011
Um I think the longest I've ever gone is a year and at that point I was climbing the walls. With my partner we rarely go more than 48 hours.
08/24/2011
I can go without but why would you?
08/24/2011
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About a week. After about 2 or 3 days, I start to get bitchy and anxious, longer than that, and I get downright impossible to live with.
Originally posted by
ParisLove
How long can you stay without sex? I ca stay without it for a pretty long time, I could go months to a year or longer
I don't drink, nor smoke, nor do recreational drugs. Every one needs some outlet and something to raise their endorphin levels. Sex is very important to me, and I want it and need it as often as possible. Once or twice a day, if we can manage it. And we usually do.
Everybody has a slightly different sex drive. But, since I started having sex at 16 (many many years ago) the longest I have gone without it was a month (I was in college, away from My Man and had not yet found a Fuck Buddy I liked enough.) It was an eternity.
Even after the birth of our children, we were having sex within days. Neither of us can go long without it.
A month or a year? I'd be up in a clock tower with an Atomic Super Soaker!!!!
08/24/2011
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You sound exactly like me---no drinks, no smokes, no drugs---I really need my endorphins!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
About a week. After about 2 or 3 days, I start to get bitchy and anxious, longer than that, and I get downright impossible to live with.
I don't drink, nor smoke, nor do recreational drugs. Every one needs some outlet and something to ... more
I don't drink, nor smoke, nor do recreational drugs. Every one needs some outlet and something to ... more
About a week. After about 2 or 3 days, I start to get bitchy and anxious, longer than that, and I get downright impossible to live with.
I don't drink, nor smoke, nor do recreational drugs. Every one needs some outlet and something to raise their endorphin levels. Sex is very important to me, and I want it and need it as often as possible. Once or twice a day, if we can manage it. And we usually do.
Everybody has a slightly different sex drive. But, since I started having sex at 16 (many many years ago) the longest I have gone without it was a month (I was in college, away from My Man and had not yet found a Fuck Buddy I liked enough.) It was an eternity.
Even after the birth of our children, we were having sex within days. Neither of us can go long without it.
A month or a year? I'd be up in a clock tower with an Atomic Super Soaker!!!! less
I don't drink, nor smoke, nor do recreational drugs. Every one needs some outlet and something to raise their endorphin levels. Sex is very important to me, and I want it and need it as often as possible. Once or twice a day, if we can manage it. And we usually do.
Everybody has a slightly different sex drive. But, since I started having sex at 16 (many many years ago) the longest I have gone without it was a month (I was in college, away from My Man and had not yet found a Fuck Buddy I liked enough.) It was an eternity.
Even after the birth of our children, we were having sex within days. Neither of us can go long without it.
A month or a year? I'd be up in a clock tower with an Atomic Super Soaker!!!! less
I started seeing a partner a who had an awkward work schedule relative to mine, and he told me after a few weeks "boy, I really can't *just* cuddle up with you for more than two nights, or else you wind up jittery and taking Azo pills!"
And I had never noticed that about myself, but he was right when I looked at it. Azo pills minimize pain if you're on the verge of a UTI (which is often a sign of stress, for me).
The longest I've gone since I started having sex was also about 5 weeks, when I made myself go on a "celibacy kick," and it was awful. I gained 15 pounds in the five weeks, and my grades sucked for that midterm. I've had dry spells of about that length since then, with a long-distance relationship (and this summer, with work)---but seems like phone sex and webcam sex work passably well.
08/24/2011
For partner sex, I go as long as is necessary for my wife to become ready again. In between I go less than 24 hours between solo sessions most often, more than 36 hours rarely, more than 48 rarer still.
08/24/2011
I did it for near ten years.
Hell on Earth.
Had an affair the night I told my ex-husband the marriage was over - the guy ended up walking funny for two days afterward.
Never doing any of that again. >_<
(Fortunately, Master has a healthy libido so I don't need to worry about that.)
Hell on Earth.
Had an affair the night I told my ex-husband the marriage was over - the guy ended up walking funny for two days afterward.
Never doing any of that again. >_<
(Fortunately, Master has a healthy libido so I don't need to worry about that.)
08/24/2011
My relationship is long distance so I am in the habit going 4-6 months without it. That is mostly why I ended up on Eden. When we were living together it never went beyond 2 days unless someone was sick.
08/24/2011
I could go without sex, as long as there's still intimate things going on.
08/24/2011
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I don't think I could go more than a couple of days. I think I am an addict!
Originally posted by
ParisLove
How long can you stay without sex? I ca stay without it for a pretty long time, I could go months to a year or longer
08/24/2011
It depends. I could go a long time if neccessary, but I'd say after a week or two it starts getting uncomfortable.
08/25/2011
i can go w/o it BUT i'll still do sexual things. lol
08/25/2011
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i went 3 months, and thought i was gunna die, hahahahahaha
Originally posted by
ParisLove
How long can you stay without sex? I ca stay without it for a pretty long time, I could go months to a year or longer
08/25/2011
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I love sex but after my bf died of cancer I went a year and a half with out it.went from nyph to none!i wasnt even myself..I was depressed all the time and my personality completely changed.As soon as I got it I was back to the normal me though!
Originally posted by
ParisLove
How long can you stay without sex? I ca stay without it for a pretty long time, I could go months to a year or longer
09/15/2011
i really dont know id like to think i could go forever
09/15/2011
Im not sure how long but yeah I can do without it.
09/15/2011
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