Thank you for the link up there--I enjoyed some of the comments!

I have been to a lot of places on the internet that seem to imply that only pretty juvenile males care. Some of the criticism is pretty stupid, cruel, the terms are crude. Someone needs to add some occasional dangle to their textbook ladies or something. Poor ignorant kids. But some will eventually learn about the spice of life if they get enough of what young people want to do...

I think it's OK to have some preference! I myself like un-cut guys. But I wouldn't think less of a man if he was cut.

Some men do show preference for longer labia, larger clits, so on. I think in some places it's displayed as a sort of fetish of the extreme. I think that's pretty silly.

In a lot of porn, we don't see a lot of lip. I assume magazines just want a "neat" look in all things. In some ways I appreciate this care, but it's a bit much to demand one kind of labia or to Photoshop the hell out of them. I like just a little more variety and I think a lot of men might, too.

The good news is that some photographers of the erotic may be helping to change ignorance and opinions. There are some websites that have stunning models, artistic photography, and a little variety of body types. The ladies are elegant--to bring up stupid terms relating to meat seems like blasphemy.

World views might vary quite a lot. I think I see more lip in Asian porn and some erotic Japanese art. I wonder how men feel about it in Asia (Insight please?). In some places in Africa, I believe long labia are sexually desirable to the point where stretching is sometimes done. An interesting contrast to places on the same continent that practice pleasure-reducing genital mutilation.

Funny, we speak against female circumcision in the west yet practice it.

But, yeah. I would guess the reality is that most guys don't have a great amount of preference. I think some guys might be saddened by a girl who was really shy about her parts. Show them to your man and make him enjoy!