Do you ever role play in the bedroom?

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Contributor: Pretties Pretties
Do you use role playing in sex? I don't just mean top/bottom, sub/dom, I mean like doctors and nurses, sexy secretary etc. How far do you go in the role play, just dressing up, giggling cheesy lines or full on method acting? I've made it multiple choice so if you do role play you can say who does if say you play yourself but like your partner to play different roles or whatever.

And I guess in the comments, what do you find it adds to sex? Or alternatively, why don't you do it? Are there some roles you don't like and others you do?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Never role play
Thong man , cmm , okno0 , matry , Rossie , edeneve , Lucifer the Cat
7
Sometimes dress up in a sexy costume but don't really role play
nichole413 , melliegirl , ZapperZepper , Kitten has left the site , Bignuf , edeneve
6
Kind of half role play as an excuse for dressing up but forget about it as soon as foreplay starts
C&K0143 , Pretties , Gunsmoke , Taylor , Kitten has left the site , Husband and Wife , konicaguy
7
Have a quite a few costume/roles we get out quite frequently
SecretKinksters
1
It's an integral part of my sex life
I have an entire wardrobe of costume and wigs and never have sex not pretending to be someone else
I'm a cops play king/queen but it's not sexual
Role play and dressing up is only for kids and nerds
I role play my partner doesn't
My partner role plays but I don't
We both role play
Pretties , SecretKinksters , Kitten has left the site
3
I would like to role play as my choice above but haven't yet
Andykh , sweisb4100 , Missy27 , jake53 , edeneve
5
Total votes: 29 (23 voters)
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07/26/2013
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Contributor: Pretties Pretties
I suppose I should start: we mainly use it as an excuse to dress up because we like seeing each other in sexy clothes that we otherwise wouldn't wear. We sometimes kind of start role playing, but neither of us are actors so that kind of falls by the wayside. Plus I think we both want to be having sex with the other person and maybe feel a bit like too much role play would be like we're pretending to be other people.

On the other hand we don't just have cheaply sex shop costumes, we have proper ones we could potentially wear to a fancy dress party, like an actual nurses dress, a butler's uniform and so on.

As for what it adds, we'll it's just fun mostly! She does look really sexy in the various outfits and I like dressing up too but neither of us would be unable together aroused without it.
07/27/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I have a lot of costumes and he has a few as well. We love to play!
07/27/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've gotten my wife to peg me a few times. She doesn't really pretend to be a man - but in another way, she must to make it work. The only other role-play we do is light bondage with restraints and impact play with a crop or paddle - very light, but we enjoy it without pain.
07/29/2013
Contributor: nichole413 nichole413
I try but for some reason, I just feel silly.
07/30/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
One former lover sprung Daddy/Daughter on me and to be honest it sort of creeped me out. I did a poor quality Daddy that time. I subsequently got better at it and eventually sort of got into it. It was not something that I would have ever initiated, but after knowing that partner liked/wanted it, I did so when the timing seemed right.
08/04/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
We don't role play. We just don't get into it.
08/09/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
I would love to role play but when I've approached my husband about it, he has never been that interested in participating. I've thought I should get some costumes and try to see how it goes. I'm sure he would enjoy it, but don't know that he would just in the role playing which would not make it that fun for me. May be worth a try though.
08/25/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
We do, especially if I get the maid or nurses outfit out. But when I do, I'M the one who tends to forget I'm wearing an outfit in the first place -_- that normally makes him laugh himself silly.
08/26/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We're not interested in role play.
08/27/2013
Contributor: jake53 jake53
I haven't yet but, would love to dress up in one of my wife's dress's and have her peg me and abuse me. If she's not happy with my performance, she can put me over her knees and spank me with a paddle.
09/18/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by Pretties
Do you use role playing in sex? I don't just mean top/bottom, sub/dom, I mean like doctors and nurses, sexy secretary etc. How far do you go in the role play, just dressing up, giggling cheesy lines or full on method acting? I've made it ... more
We never get very far once the foreplay gets going. Plus, my wife always feels silly and isn't very good at it...
09/18/2013