Usually just with sex, but sometimes I do need a little help.

I need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

I usually need my clit stimulated to have an orgasm. However, I have had a partner with a penis that had a pretty nice curve to it and because of the stimulation my g-spot was getting I didn't need to clit stimulation

For me it depends. I really am not a morning person and my clit, as well as the rest of my genitals, have a VERY difficult time rising to the occasion and waking up. So, for morning sex I almost always need help with a toy or at least a bit of oral before the main event.

Otherwise, it isn't that I HAVE to pleasure myself, as much as it is that it feels good and that it turns my husband on too (and it feels good for him as well). It is nice when he does it for me, using his hand or grabbing a toy to stimulate my clit even more while we are having sex.

I don't always need the extra help, but sometimes, when I get close, I can't help but to go ahead and help myself, all that stimulation just feels so darn good.

I do some of both.

It's not necessary for me to have to though sometimes I do it just to turn him on more. He gets me off just fine by himself, lol.

My wife and I have a great time together - but I accept that she will orgasm most consistently with toys. We use the toys together so I'm part of her pleasure - she will not even touch the toys unless I'm with her.

When we're engaged in intercourse she's going to have the most success in the cowgirl position - where she's in control.

Sure there are times where we use our Liberator Wedge or in the doggy position when I can bring her to orgasm - it's just less reliable. I don't feel bad about any of this - I'm just glad that we've figured out how it works.

The more orgasms she has the more she wants - and that's a good thing for me!