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Do you hide your masturbation?

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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
My husband does NOT masturbate. I know I know, most of you will sit there and giggle and say he is lying. However, he seriously doesn't even have the time to do it and we're always together. So, I know for a fact he's telling the truth. Myself, sometimes I have done it without telling him or I have hid the fact that I have done it.

Sometimes I suffer from insomnia and it does help me to sleep if I masturbate. So its not really a sexual thing for me, its more of a sleeping aid, when I do it without him. I feel guilty but I also don't want him to think Im doing it because Im not satisfied. Do you do it without your spouse or partner knowing? If so, do you hide the fact or lie about it?
02/15/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
I used to, but when we started having so much fun doing it together my solos sucked. It reminds me of when you eat a gourmet dinner and it is sooo perfect, then later when you are starving and all you have in the house to eat are stale crackers....
02/15/2012
Contributor: jjdd jjdd
I only hide it when I'm doing it in a public place.

Haha not but seriously. I have masturbated while in a relationship with someone, sometimes in the bed next to him while he was asleep. If he ever asked me point blank, I wouldn't lie about it but I also woudln't necessarily go out of my way to tell him. I have never felt guilty for doing it and I don't think anyone should. Just communicate honestly about your reasons for solo fun
02/15/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
My husband does NOT masturbate. I know I know, most of you will sit there and giggle and say he is lying. However, he seriously doesn't even have the time to do it and we're always together. So, I know for a fact he's telling the truth. ... more
I prefer privacy but I don't necessarily hide the fact that I masturbate or am masturbating at any given time. Both of my partners masturbate and it's not a real big secret though we do like a little privacy at times.
02/15/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I used to, but when we started having so much fun doing it together my solos sucked. It reminds me of when you eat a gourmet dinner and it is sooo perfect, then later when you are starving and all you have in the house to eat are stale crackers....
lol I know this feeling!
02/19/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by jjdd
I only hide it when I'm doing it in a public place.

Haha not but seriously. I have masturbated while in a relationship with someone, sometimes in the bed next to him while he was asleep. If he ever asked me point blank, I wouldn't ... more
Ive done this too! Masturbating while he's sleeping next to me. LOL. Honestly, it helps me sleep and if Im dog ass tired...the last thing I want to do is wake him up so he can throw me around the bed for 20 minutes lol. Sometimes Im just so tired, that sex seems like such a chore lol. God I sound like a married woman. Even though I am, that is besides the point LOL
02/19/2012
Contributor: smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
My husband does NOT masturbate. I know I know, most of you will sit there and giggle and say he is lying. However, he seriously doesn't even have the time to do it and we're always together. So, I know for a fact he's telling the truth. ... more
Masturbation is a beautiful thing! I masturbate and I'm in a committed relationship. My partner masturbates. No shame!
02/19/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
For me, I can't really get a good orgasm if I masturbate in front of him, so when I do, it's more for him (probably a self conscious thing). So if I'm looking for a good solo orgasm, I slink away...
02/19/2012
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
I do a lot of anal masturbation but my wife wants nothing to do with it so I often find myself "hiding" it by waiting till she is out of the house. I have tried talking to her about my feelings about it, but she won't take time to listen to anything. She just closes up and changes the subject. This I feel will be our unmaking.
02/19/2012