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Do you use sex to negotiate?

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Contributor: PussyPurr PussyPurr
I was thinking about doing a poll, but the ADHD in me doesn't have the patience

I am curious if anyone uses sex to negotiate...such as "I'll give you a blow job if you _____" or whatever (for me it usually just takes the promise of a blow job LOL).

I do this with my current long-term partner...it's not because he *won't* do anything for me unless I do this, it's more like a little extra something I may be asking of him, so I'll give him a little extra appreciation back

Massages are also good negotiating tools, I've found
09/15/2011
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Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Not really. For me sex is sex, and I like keeping it something that is negotiation-free.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I never negotiate with sexual acts or PIV sex, even if it seems playful and fun. I only offer sex when I feel like it. I always feel like giving hand jobs and blowjobs so I give them out like candy on hallowe'en.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
We never use sex in negotiation.
09/15/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I refuse to use sex as a negotiation tool. Sex is an activity between the two of us, not a reward for him.
09/15/2011
Contributor: PussyPurr PussyPurr
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I never negotiate with sexual acts or PIV sex, even if it seems playful and fun. I only offer sex when I feel like it. I always feel like giving hand jobs and blowjobs so I give them out like candy on hallowe'en.
LOL I always feel like it...it's definitely fun for both of us when it's time to collect!
09/15/2011
Contributor: Forever17 Forever17
maybe sometimes just once in awhile
09/15/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
No, I don't use sex as a negotiation tool - not healthy for our relationship.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by PussyPurr
LOL I always feel like it...it's definitely fun for both of us when it's time to collect!
Well he does collect more than I but once his back/butt/leg are back in shape, he's going to get a sore tongue!
09/15/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Nope. The closest we've ever come to sex negotiations is a very playful reversal of it, something like "I'll let you give me a screaming orgasm later if I can give you a blowjob right now." It's more just dirty talk that vocalizes what we both already had in mind though, spoken more for the tease value.
09/17/2011