I was thinking about doing a poll, but the ADHD in me doesn't have the patience
I am curious if anyone uses sex to negotiate...such as "I'll give you a blow job if you _____" or whatever (for me it usually just takes the promise of a blow job LOL).
I do this with my current long-term partner...it's not because he *won't* do anything for me unless I do this, it's more like a little extra something I may be asking of him, so I'll give him a little extra appreciation back
Massages are also good negotiating tools, I've found
I am curious if anyone uses sex to negotiate...such as "I'll give you a blow job if you _____" or whatever (for me it usually just takes the promise of a blow job LOL).
I do this with my current long-term partner...it's not because he *won't* do anything for me unless I do this, it's more like a little extra something I may be asking of him, so I'll give him a little extra appreciation back
Massages are also good negotiating tools, I've found