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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Girls, if you enjoy anal sex with your partner, do you allow it any time you're having sex? or do you have to be in the mood?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'll go for anal sex anytime
gorgeous , Sammi , QueenBitch , dv8 , geliebt , lainebug , Istanbull , oneeyedoctopus , bratcat
9  (21%)
I need to be in the mood for anal sex
joiedejouets , Pumpk1nPatch , chicmichiw , captainsgirl , bayosgirl , Stagger13 , Jenny Swallows , Ciao. , P'Gell , padmeamidala , Adnerbmw , Munko , bog , SMichelle , melliegirl , nimr , karenm , GirlOnGirl , synj66
19  (44%)
I very rarely allow anal
KinkyKatieJames , Isola , PropertyOfPotter , snowminx
4  (9%)
Not intersted in anal
Ansley , solitudinarian , tami , Martiniman , VeganChick (is Gone) , marriedlady123
6  (14%)
other
mailroomorder , Pandwhora , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Nezzie13 , joolie
5  (12%)
Total votes: 43
Poll is closed
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04/10/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I'm going to answer as a man, and as a man who enjoys anal myself. Anal isn't something you just dive into on a whim.
04/10/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
I'm going to answer as a man, and as a man who enjoys anal myself. Anal isn't something you just dive into on a whim.
Totally agreed. Good anal requires good preparation.
04/10/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
There are times when I am the one that really wants it and I get it, of course. But when he wants it, even if I'm not in the best mood for it, I will give it to him. I like to keep him happy.
04/10/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
Gotta prepare, and be in the right mindset!
04/10/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It's a special treat for my husband. I don't love it, so I allow it to happen here and there.
04/10/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I don't see how this is a "anything goes" questions when you are just asking about anal but oh well...
04/10/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Just anal teasing? Oh, anytime! Full-on? That requires some time.
04/10/2013
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We usually incorporate it, so if he wants to, I'm game
04/10/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I can't answer in detail for my wife - but since we started having anal sex about 3 months ago - she's getting into it more and more into it. In fact tonight she said 'I bet you never thought I would start to enjoy anal sex!'

To which I simply gave my standard response - "I told you so!"
04/11/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Girls, if you enjoy anal sex with your partner, do you allow it any time you're having sex? or do you have to be in the mood?
not interested at all
04/11/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
I'm going to answer as a man, and as a man who enjoys anal myself. Anal isn't something you just dive into on a whim.
Agree...and you have to be in the mood (top or bottom)
04/11/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife is a hard no on anal sex.
04/11/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I have to be in the mood for it and have had an orgasm first... but after my first orgasm or so, I'm usually in the mood for it.
04/11/2013
Contributor: palindromic palindromic
Like all sex acts, BOTH parties must want anal sex before it happens, which includes being in the mood for it.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
Im up for it most of the time, its very rare i am not into it.
04/15/2013
Contributor: QueenBitch QueenBitch
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Girls, if you enjoy anal sex with your partner, do you allow it any time you're having sex? or do you have to be in the mood?
Love anal
04/15/2013
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Girls, if you enjoy anal sex with your partner, do you allow it any time you're having sex? or do you have to be in the mood?
if she's in the mood or asks me for it, i wouldn't just go for it
04/16/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Anal play is always welcome, Anal sex needs to be set up just right for me!
04/16/2013
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm always up for anal! It takes some prep, of course, so it's better for us to say "Hey, let's have anal tonight ;D" rather than just go for it spur of the moment, but when it comes to willingness, anal play is always an option!
04/16/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I pretty much down for anal whenever, but sometimes my body isn't quite as ready as I am. I just let my partner know how I feel as it's happening.
04/16/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Girls, if you enjoy anal sex with your partner, do you allow it any time you're having sex? or do you have to be in the mood?
any time
04/16/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
I said other. Full penile anal penetration is not fair game because I have to be prepared for it, but a finger my rear during other activities is always appreciated
04/16/2013
Contributor: joolie joolie
I have a phobia that he will try it,because we tried once and it didn't happen. Horrible.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Anal sex IS just another word for "Sex" to me.
04/30/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I'd say I'd have to be in the mood for it.
04/30/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I have to be in the mood for it.
05/01/2013
Contributor: synj66 synj66
I have to be in the mood and very, very turned on. He will never just unexpectedly "stick it in" I have to ask (ahem..not "nicely" either more like demand) It rarely happens though, maybe once every couple of months because I prefer vaginal intercourse and usually anal only happens after I have had one or more orgasms.
05/01/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
I'm often in the mood for anal. My partner and i actually use it as a "warm up" before having PiV sex, like a type of foreplay. But of course this will only be done with my full consent, i dont like the idea of ANYONE just thinking that because we're having sex and know that i enjoy anal play/sex that it would be okay to just "stick it in" without getting an enthusiastic yes from me beforehand.
05/01/2013