Fantasies. I've never understood them. Since about 14, I've never fantasized about much of anything, I just grew out of it. Now, at 19, I wish I had more fantasies to add some spice to my personal time. Sure, I think of my significant other when I do stuff sometimes, but not in detail- no mental images of sexy evenings, or him feeling me up. I don't really get aroused by thinking of all the traditional fantasies, like a sexy teacher, or sneaking around the hallways, cops and robbers, tying someone up or being tied up, etc etc nothing really excites me. I've always chalked it up to me being vanilla, but I was wondering, is there anyone else like me who rarely or never fantasizes about anything? I can't even become aroused thinking of other people besides my SO, which is mostly why porn typically doesn't do it for me. I appreciate the sexiness but it doesn't mentally turn me on. On the other side of the token sometimes porn physically arouses me but has no mental affect whatsoever. The second I actually get around my partner though, I'm on fire thinking of all the things we could do. Just never anything out of the ordinary.
So.. have at it. Oh, and while you're here.. I'd love some suggestions. (Oh, and yes, I did mess up voting on my own poll. Derp derp. )
So.. have at it. Oh, and while you're here.. I'd love some suggestions. (Oh, and yes, I did mess up voting on my own poll. Derp derp. )