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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

please note this is a 2 part poll. as always, you are quite welcome to elaborate answers below. i'm very new to this sort of thing and would love your takes on it!

thanks so much.

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
i am answering in response to fisting in general
41
i am answering in response to anal fisting
15
i am answering in response to vaginal fisting
48
i have tried it and it is incredible
25
i haven't tried it but am curious
30
i would never try it
40
i haven't really heard much about the subject
1
other (please explain below)
11
Total votes: 211 (114 voters)
Poll is closed
06/28/2011
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Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I am very interested in trying vaginal fisting, I just read the book A Hand in the Bush about this topic to get more information, now all I need is a willing partner
06/28/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't tried either, but I'd be willing if a partner wanted to do it. Personally, I don't think I'd try to persuade a partner to do it, though. I think I feel pretty secure with the idea of vaginal fisting, anal wold require a bit more research first, though.
06/28/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
thanks for the book ref, waterfall (and again i say, hot pic btw!)

my experience with vaginal fisting: the combination of pain and overcoming pain, trusting him, communicating when to push further and when to wait, being amazed at how far he can go, wanting him to go further, and simply having a part of his body deep inside my own; it really brought us closer together, and made my eyes wide.


below is a little poem i wrote about it. after our first try with it, i couldn't stop thinking of it all day. i kept experiencing the feeling of being filled up with his hand inside me.



...................... .................

fisting.

and every time i think about it your hand is back inside of my body
deep inside me and my head is reeling
whirring around it
and i feel close to you
and warm
and so so
strange.

06/28/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
also, an interesting wikipedia entry on the subject, which oddly enough mentions 'a hand in the bush' as a reference.

Fisting on Wiki


enjoy!

06/28/2011
Contributor: CafeSabroso CafeSabroso
"Hand in the bush" is about the only hard-copy published work on vaginal fisting. I remember reading about it quite some time ago. Has a ton of review on Amazon (49, which is a lot in that category).

I have a bit of experience with anal fisting, though just receiving (unless you count self-fisting as giving). It really is an other-wordly experience. In order to take a hand (not really a fist, which is generally much too big) it takes an incredible amount of relaxation and the ability to put yourself in sort of a meditative calm. Note that some people use drugs to get to that state of mind, but doing so is risky, and I feel that it violates the whole point of the activity. Anyways, it's really a lot of fun and a very strong trust exercise. However, it takes a lot of practice and warming up to pull off. Just something to keep in mind, go gradually!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
thanks for the book ref, waterfall (and again i say, hot pic btw!)

my experience with vaginal fisting: the combination of pain and overcoming pain, trusting him, communicating when to push further and when to wait, being amazed at how far he ... more
You're welcome! Thanks for the comment about my profile picture
06/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I think vaginal fisting is interesting, but I don't have any desire to try.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'd be curious to try it on my wife, but I doubt she'd be interested (or enjoy it at all).
06/29/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I've never tired vaginal fisting, but it's definitely something I'm very curious about. I am interested in looking into it.
06/29/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Bonesdance
I'd be curious to try it on my wife, but I doubt she'd be interested (or enjoy it at all).
you might just bring it up casually while getting her into a fingering session one day. of course you probably usually start with one or two fingers and sometimes switch to three... just ask her if she wants more.

for us it really happened accidentally. i find it most pleasurable with a vibe on my clit, to translate pleasure to pain and back again.



good luck.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I've tried it and it wasn't that different from other things, but I was so in the zone I didn't notice.
06/29/2011
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
have sort of tried it, and didn't love it
06/29/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The wife has no desire for me to do it to her but we did attempt it once. Only got to my thumb.
I would love for the wife to try it on me though.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Pinkhare Pinkhare
Ive tried it vaginally with two separate partners. I say tried because both men had very large hands and I just couldn't take it completely . But what i could felt awesome !
06/29/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I've NEVER tried it. I really would never try it either. It just looks too painful.
06/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I have no interest in fisting in general.
06/29/2011
Contributor: SexToyTestDrive SexToyTestDrive
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

please note ... more
My partner and I have tried it and it is a wonderful experience. However, so far we have only been able to get to the widest part of the hand.
06/30/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I am not interested in trying it.
06/30/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

please note ... more
Tried vaginal fisting after reading about it years ago. I'm simply too small. Was not going to happen. Period. I love anal play too, but again, am "small..very small" back there, so more then two fingers (or my man's "toy") and it just is not comfortable or fun.
06/30/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I absolutely love it! I like to reach down and feel his forearm entering me. My husband has very large hands, so I need a lot of warm up but he really seems to enjoy taking his time. I love the full feeling and the stretch fisting provides.
06/30/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
this does not sound like fun. My wife is very small, i dont think she would like it
06/30/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Never done it but would like to try it vaginally.
06/30/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Several of my female partners have enjoyed four fingers and then the rest of my hand. I have relatively flexible hands so that may have made things a bit easier.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I've tried it but didn't really like it. Luckily the guy I was with had small hands, otherwise larger hands I wouldn't be able to take.
07/01/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never tried it, but I don't have any desire to at this point.
07/01/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
i have never really tried it seriously, and i would be scared. my man has very large hands... :S
07/02/2011
Contributor: dezzydezire dezzydezire
I am new to fisting and answer only for vaginal fisting. My hubby brough it up as a fantasy of his and we have been trying slowly and paitently. We havn't succeded yet but what we done so far is great, and sex after he says im tighter than normal.
07/13/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
My wife likes to be vaginally fisted.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I've never tried it. Would possibly be up for vaginal fisting if I trusted the guy doing it but wouldn't be interested in anal fisting.
07/14/2011