fisting... raise your hand!?

Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
In response to Vaginal Fisting only (no experience with Anal Fisting):

I absolutely love it. It had been a fantasy for a very long time of mine but until my current partner, I hadn't had it fulfilled - he's had experience giving before so he knows the right... er... "technique" so to speak. It took us quite a few sessions to figure out what worked for us, went slowly, and one night everything just sort of fell into place.

It feels amazing and he seriously gets off on doing it to me. Go slow, lots of lube, don't get frustrated, and RELAX. Eventually it'll happen - or not! The fun is in the experimentation leading up to it as well as that "oh god it's happening!" moment.
07/15/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
i've tried both vaginal & anal. vaginally, i'm too tight for any pleasure. after some warming up, anal fist has been quite enjoyable
07/16/2011
Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
never tried it maybe i would guess id have drink bottle of wine then see
07/16/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Not sure i might do it depends on whose hand not my husbands they are huge!
07/17/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I can hardly take a penis let alone a HAND. Omg.
07/19/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
This is a good question, I've been pretty curious about this!
07/29/2011
Contributor: Crichton Crichton
Definitely no to anal fisting, now or in the future. As for vaginal no for now, but I can't say anything for the future.
07/29/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
we've never tried it, i just don't know if it would even work well.
08/19/2011
Contributor: Sharpsgirl1 Sharpsgirl1
The topic was just brought up, we have both been very comfortable about talking everything out. At first I was a little afraid of the whole"stretching" out, until I did my homework. We read all the tips that were available, we went slow and made sure to use lots and lots of lube....even used a latex glove to ease things along. An experience I cant even explain, The smile on his face watching me squirm and the intense feelings I had...OMG. Needless to say I want it all the time. We have had sex in most case for another round shortley after and there have been no complaints. I have become a fan : )
09/03/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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ive trie d both and love it
09/03/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have been fisted by a girlfriend, and enjoyed the experience but my bf's hands are just too big for me. Never been interested in anal fisting though, I love anal sex.
09/15/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
i have absolutely no desire in the subject & would never do it in either place!
09/15/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Never over my dead body!
10/25/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Watching the porn I have a mixture of awe and revulsion. It's obvious that some people get off doing it - but the wife and I have no desire to even try.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Darktorn Darktorn
I have not done fisting but I would like to try it sometime.
10/26/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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Never.
10/28/2011
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
Vaginal only..tried it once and it was very erotic! The only way my current lover can make me squirt is by getting about 3-4 fingers up there. I'm sore after but it feels great and he loves it.

I'll pass on anal fisting though and just stick to anal sex.
11/10/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
The idea of fisting in general (especially when applied to my anatomy) kinda scares me. There's no way a fist is gonna fit into my anus and my vagina doesn't like the idea either.
03/23/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I've done it to my ex-girlfriend. She seemed to enjoy it. We had to use lots and lots of lube. My hand got all pruney!

I wouldn't want my guy to try it on me, there are days when I can't fit his penis inside me. How could I fit his hand?
03/23/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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My man has fisted me(vaginally) a few times.


If I like it depends on the mood and situation.


If he isn't in a hurry and I am really turned on, then I enjoy it a lot.

If he is in to much of a hurry, he tends not to take much time on turning me on... and inturn, I don't enjoy it at all.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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I like it most of the time, but sometimes he rushes to much,... it takes time, you can't just shove your whole fist in right away!
03/25/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
I'm not sure I'd be into this but I am curious.
03/25/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i cant even handle larger didlos let alone fisting yikes
03/27/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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I have seen fisting in porn. And I just don't think it's for me, I would rather just have intercourse
05/12/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
vaginal fisting is very much a part of my sexual life, when my hubby first started to do this (years ago) I thought I was going to freak out.

Now having had 2 kids probably helps this a little bit but I remember being told "you'll stretch a mile before you tear an inch"

I really enjoy the feeling of fullness that fisting and larger toys provide. I would just suggest that you start at it slow like my hubby did, 2 easing into 3 fingers and before I knew it he was in. Plenty of lube goes a long way though too
05/14/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
what are your thoughts/ experiences with fisting? please elaborate!


for me, it was recently come up with my partner and i; vaginal fisting, that is. it has been every time a seriously wild emotional/spiritual experience.

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I have never tried it, and would never try it!
05/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
We've never tried it, and I wouldn't be comfortable with it.
07/08/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
oww. x_x
08/10/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i love vaginal fisting, both giving and receiving. i've done both multiple times. i'm really tiny and tight and my cervix is very shallow so there's not a lot of room in there, but my current Girlfriend/Mistress has wonderfully tiny hands. my hands, also, like the rest of me, are very small. Both as a fister and fistee, it's very important to go very slowly, starting with two, then three, then four fingers, working the thumb in and then it's working to find the most comfortable angle to get the knuckles in. For me, i need to be in the right mood. i need to be just the right combination of very turned on and very relaxed which is kind of a rare state. i also need my partner not to do anything while fisting me that will push me towards orgasm because then my muscles start tightening and i can't relax, which is very counterproductive. i also need lots of communication. A fisting session with me receiving usually sounds something like this:
"Yeah that's good, another finger, oh yeah, yeah, ok, now your thumb. Oh god, ok, my legs are numb, slow down, give me a minute, ok, a little more. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Ok, turn your hand a little to the left, no wait, that's too much, back to the right a little, no, too much. Ok stop a minute. Push down and angle your hand up. Need more lube on the left side of your hand. Ok, push in a little more. Shift to the right...."
You get the picture, it takes a lot of patience and my partner has to follow direction.
08/10/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
I have tried it vaginally, my partner has really small hands. I found it quite pleasurable after trying to get it in for 30 minutes and a LOT of lube.
08/12/2012