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Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Have you ever had flashbacks in sex. Weather they be good or bad have you ever had them.

I personally have had a few flasbacks. Some are flashbacks of memories I wish I never expierenced, however some our ausome. I think my faviorte one was when I was having some ausome lesbian sex and as I was imiganing it being my husband licking me I just strated having flashbacks of when me and my husband had the most romantic night ever, witch we had some of the best sex ever with him giving me oral for at least an hour and a half and toys inbetween. That was a ausome flashback.
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Nope never
12
I have had flashbacks but its rare
12
I do every now and then
20
I do often
1
It gets in the way of my sex life
2
It makes my sex life better
1
They sometimes get in the way they sometimes help
9
Other
Total votes: 57 (47 voters)
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Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
I have definitely experienced some flashbacks, both sexual and non-sexual. Most of the time I do my best to block everything out, because regardless of the subject matter of the flashback it tends to distract me, and the last thing I want is to be distracted when I already have difficulty orgasming (hormone-related)!
09/08/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
If it involves anal, I have horrible flashbacks to when I was raped by my then friend. It's been a tough hurdle to get over and, quite frankly, it hinders me when it comes to anal. I'm working on it slowly, but that was six years ago and it still haunts me as if it happened yesterday.
09/08/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
UMCWIFE99:

I have a small suggestion. Please try to use proper spelling in your posts.

FYI - Awesome is the correct spelling - not 'ausome'. If you didn't know, the red line under a word means that the spell checker is telling you it's probably wrong. Hover your cursor over the word, press the right mouse button and the spell checker will give you the proper spelling.

Hope this helps.

BTW - I do have the occasion flashback, but it's not usually in a sexual situation.
09/09/2010
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by usmcwife99
Have you ever had flashbacks in sex. Weather they be good or bad have you ever had them.

I personally have had a few flasbacks. Some are flashbacks of memories I wish I never expierenced, however some our ausome. I think my faviorte one was ... more
good and bad. but it depends on if you choose to as well. if its boring i will remember a specfic time. lol
09/09/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Nope, i tend to fantasize, not have flashbacks. I don't want to either, none of them are good, haha.
09/09/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Nope, i tend to fantasize, not have flashbacks. I don't want to either, none of them are good, haha.
Goth, I used to HATE my fantasies. I used to think, "What the fuck is wrong with me?" (I have really nasty fantasies.) But, when I tried to be "PC" and clean them up, I didn't have a good time during sex. {shrug}

I figure about half of what I fantasize about is never going to happen, nor would I let it. I just go with the flow, now. Don't feel bad about yours. I'm willing to be most of us who do need to fantasize have just as "weird" thoughts as you do.
09/09/2010
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
No, but fantasies will play out in my head.
09/09/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
If it involves anal, I have horrible flashbacks to when I was raped by my then friend. It's been a tough hurdle to get over and, quite frankly, it hinders me when it comes to anal. I'm working on it slowly, but that was six years ago and it ... more
Sorry girl, I can deffintly relate to that. Both with vaginal and anal.....luckily I have a man who understands and will hold me while I cry for hours sometimes.

It seams like yesterday but was just a few years ago. It still gets to me and still can "ruin the moment"
09/09/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Mostly I have flashbacks of things I wish I hadn't done.
09/11/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I've never experienced flashbacks during sex. Truthfully, sex is one of the few times when I find I'm able to be completely in the moment.
09/11/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz
I've never experienced flashbacks during sex. Truthfully, sex is one of the few times when I find I'm able to be completely in the moment.
LUCKY, ime now jelous
09/24/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I used to have negative flashbacks a lot more often. I have not had one in about a year. But, if I were to start a new relationship, I might have them again until I trusted the person.
09/28/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by usmcwife99
Have you ever had flashbacks in sex. Weather they be good or bad have you ever had them.

I personally have had a few flasbacks. Some are flashbacks of memories I wish I never expierenced, however some our ausome. I think my faviorte one was ... more
I have never have had a flashback during sex.
09/29/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
rarely..
10/24/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
My boyfriend fucks me insane and it's impossible for me to form any coherent thoughts whatsoever.
10/24/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't really have flashbacks during sex. Some times I'll fantasize but that's not the same thing.

I do find I'll have flashbacks when violence is used or around me.
10/24/2010
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My boyfriend fucks me insane and it's impossible for me to form any coherent thoughts whatsoever.
This! My brain pretty much stops functioning.
03/12/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I sometimes get bad flashbacks.
03/12/2011