The New Intimacy

For the ladies: Toys only, or do you use your hands too?

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Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
Considering the fact that we're all obviously here because we love toys (I'm assuming, anyway!), I was wondering how many of us also let our hands get in on the action. Personally, I've found that since I discovered toys (and started building up my collection!) I don't masturbate manually often at all. Before I bought my first toy, though, I used my hands exclusively.

I don't find one more pleasurable than the other, really, but I do find that the orgasms are much different. When I use a toy, the orgasm is quick and sharp. Using my hands, though, I find that the orgasm builds to a crescendo and then basically comes in waves.

So, ladies, how about it? Do your toys do all the work, or do you let your fingers do the walking from time to time?
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Fingers do the walking pretty often for clitoral stimulation, not so much for other stuff now, though.
06/20/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
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Originally posted by Kat Shanahan
Considering the fact that we're all obviously here because we love toys (I'm assuming, anyway!), I was wondering how many of us also let our hands get in on the action. Personally, I've found that since I discovered toys (and started ... more
I used to use only fingers. Now I'm all toys. Perhaps one day it'll be both!
06/20/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Every once in a while I use my fingers. I use toys almost all of the time though. It makes me wonder how I had so much fun without them
06/20/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
toys, so much easier and evolution has not given me vibrating fingers yet lol
06/20/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I usually go for toys but use my hands for clitoral stimulation.
06/20/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never been able to get off using fingers. Thank goodness for toys!
06/20/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I have only finished with my fingers a few times in my life. It's just so much easier to hold a toy in place and not have to do any work. Every now and then I'll try using my fingers to switch it up, but my wrist always starts to get sore, so I'll grab a toy to finish.
06/20/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Depending on my mood I'll use my fingers to stimulate my clit while using a dildo.
06/20/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Kat Shanahan
Considering the fact that we're all obviously here because we love toys (I'm assuming, anyway!), I was wondering how many of us also let our hands get in on the action. Personally, I've found that since I discovered toys (and started ... more
use both! I like the touch of the skin on skin and sensations from the vibrations
06/21/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm pretty much toys only now. I will use my hand occasionally but mostly only toys. Even if I use a dildo, I'll normally use another toy for my clit.
06/21/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Toys for insertable and sometimes fingers for clit
06/21/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
Primarily I use toys for almost everything, but from time to time I will use my finger on my clit, when I am craving more of a rough feeling, rather than a delicate vibration. (if that makes any sense to anyone but be)
06/21/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by PiratePrincess
I've never been able to get off using fingers. Thank goodness for toys!
I've also never been able to climax using just my fingers. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one. I always felt like I was lacking is some way because I couldn't bring myself to orgasm with just my hands.
06/21/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Both!
06/21/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I live in an apartment with pretty thin walls so sometimes at night I usually have to use my hands, but I can get away with using something in the shower.
06/22/2011
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
I haven't found a better anal toy than my fingers yet. I don't like them vaginally, tough. Most of that is because of access issues.

When I did my May Masturbation challenge I found I could come pretty hard from a dildo in my pussy and finger on my clit. For years fingers-on-clit orgasms were weak so that was a welcome change. It tapered off after I completed the challenge and went back to wasting my time with my laptop instead of wanking.
06/26/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I was just thinking last night how I forget what my fingers feel like now.
06/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I love toys, they bring me where I want to be so much quicker although I do still occasionally use fingers.
06/26/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
I use both toys and hands
06/29/2011