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Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
04/14/2009
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04/14/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
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Originally posted by LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Yes! Some of the best orgasms I have ever had were 100% from giving pleasure.
04/14/2009
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Wow, really? There was a time in which I felt pleasure mentally when I wasn't receiving it, but I wasn't close to orgasm.

Can anyone suggest any tips on how to do this? I know it's not quite as simple as that, but did you or your partner do anything different that you normally don't? And so on?
04/14/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
Well I was doing something I never thought he would let me do, and while he was sober! I finally got him into Anal play, and was fingering his P spot (which I'm amazed I found so quick) And just the thought of his trust, his pleasure being in my hands, and my fantasy being filled, it just happened. I never thought that was possible but it happened.
04/14/2009
Contributor: Viv Viv
yup! that's happened on both our ends over here ^_^
04/14/2009
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
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Originally posted by LilyLust
Well I was doing something I never thought he would let me do, and while he was sober! I finally got him into Anal play, and was fingering his P spot (which I'm amazed I found so quick) And just the thought of his trust, his pleasure being in my ... more
That just sounds so awesome.

I hope I can ease my man into anal someday. It would be a dream come true!

Keep 'em coming!
04/14/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Yup! I love just watching my boyfriend's reactions when I'm pleasuring him... It doesn't happen often that I orgasm from the eye candy, but it happens!
04/14/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Lucky you. I think my husband definitely gets more excited about pleasuring me but never to orgasm.
04/15/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
I've never been able to "will it" to happen. I always have to resort to manual stimulation.. I'm not much for tantric sex or the ability for my brain to signal to my lady parts "hey, let's start making some magic happen" without any touching. It has to be pretty extreme though to physically have an orgasm from solely pleasuring someone else.
04/15/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I need some sort of stimulation as well. He's able to do it just pleasuring me, though.
04/15/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
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Originally posted by Nashville
I've never been able to "will it" to happen. I always have to resort to manual stimulation.. I'm not much for tantric sex or the ability for my brain to signal to my lady parts "hey, let's start making some magic ... more
It defiantly was a surprise! I didn't will it. I have heard of it happening but I thought it was one of those sex myths. But damn! I shook me all over. And tingled for a long while after ward!
04/15/2009
Contributor: Perish Perish
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
This sounds pretty interesting... I've never experienced anything like his before but hmmm...
04/15/2009
Contributor: Cocoa88 Cocoa88
When I do things to my partner I definately get that throbbing feeling like if he touches me I'm gonna bust lol. But I have never had an orgasm from it....I really want to try anal play with my partner but he feels I would think he is gay or something....men are so funny...well my man is..
04/16/2009
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
I get incredibly wet just from pleasuring my boy, moreso than I'd ever predict, but sadly, my hands/arms/mouth usually get tired too quickly, so I haven't had the awesome-sounding orgasm from giving pleasure. It's something to shoot for, though!
04/16/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
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Originally posted by Cocoa88
When I do things to my partner I definately get that throbbing feeling like if he touches me I'm gonna bust lol. But I have never had an orgasm from it....I really want to try anal play with my partner but he feels I would think he is gay or ... more
It took a long time to get mine to be secure with it. Only after I found out he had secret desires he was too ashamed to tell me, did I pursue it. But I'm sure glad I did!
04/16/2009
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
I had this happen a few times when I was pregnant with our 2nd child. We couldn't have intercourse for the first five months, so I would give my hubby head and I got so worked up that I had some of the BEST O's ever!
04/16/2009
Contributor: the nibbler the nibbler
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
All the time. It's very erotic about watching your partner climax.
04/16/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Wow! Never been able to orgasm w/o some physical stimulation but I do get very worked up. I luv watching my partner's face and reactions as I please him.
04/17/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
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Originally posted by Liz2
Wow! Never been able to orgasm w/o some physical stimulation but I do get very worked up. I luv watching my partner's face and reactions as I please him.
I think it was hearing him moan like he never had before. What a thrill! I hope it wasn't a one time thing.
04/18/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
I think it was hearing him moan like he never had before. What a thrill! I hope it wasn't a one time thing.
Hopefully it will not be! I think most guys are so concerned about performing that when total pleasure comes their way w/o expectations they are totally surprised and just go with it.
I know I need so much and my present b/f does give so much but there has to be a time for just him.
04/19/2009
Contributor: mr. right mr. right
wow, i didn't know this was possible but, after reading your posts, i called my better half in the other room and she said she has also experienced this. why didn't she tell me!!!!!! lol
04/19/2009
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I don't think I've ever had an orgasm from it per se, but there have been times I've enjoyed it so much that I felt the relief of a good orgasm afterward.
04/19/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
I love doing things hubby likes but I've never reached orgasm by doing those things. I have to have some physical stimulation to get there..but when I do get there, it is usually great becasue he takes his time even more so with me...
04/20/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
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Originally posted by Mamastoys
I love doing things hubby likes but I've never reached orgasm by doing those things. I have to have some physical stimulation to get there..but when I do get there, it is usually great becasue he takes his time even more so with me...
Aww thats so sweet. I don't know many men that take their time.
04/21/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
Aww thats so sweet. I don't know many men that take their time.
I am lucky and I know it!!! )
04/21/2009
Contributor: Butterkups Butterkups
Quote:
Originally posted by LilyLust
I didn't think it was possible but while I was pleasuring my husband last night, I got so turned on and worked up mentally I orgasmed. With out him touching me.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
oh yes... In fact I have just sat around and thought of him fucking me and cum on myself.
05/05/2009
Contributor: Josmoseph Josmoseph
It is sometimes about what your thinking about. If your reflecting on washing the clothes and the kids screeming while stroking his cock you are probably going to put his dick through the wringer. But if you really love this man and are concentrating on just how wonderful you are making him feel and how that huge hunk of hard swollen flesh is going to feel thrust deep inside you again and again... OK you get the idea. It is mind over matter. If you dont mind it wont matter.
05/08/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
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Originally posted by Josmoseph
It is sometimes about what your thinking about. If your reflecting on washing the clothes and the kids screeming while stroking his cock you are probably going to put his dick through the wringer. But if you really love this man and are ... more
would that be the old timey wringers??? LOL
It is all about mind over matter!
05/08/2009
Contributor: iLashe iLashe
that's beautiful! and very inspiring. haven't yet, but i'm trying to do the untouched orgasm thing, without a partner.. i saw an interview with katie morgan interviewing a woman once, who willed herself to orgasm in under 10 seconds by squeezing her legs together.. i think my sister could do that years ago too
06/27/2011