The New Intimacy

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Guys, this is a very specific question and it has lead to some heated discussions among some of us friends (all woman) with very different "body styles". It is a somewhat complicated question, BUT.....

All things being equal (not, "oh, I hated that girl because....)....all things being equal, if you have made love (or had sex, as many want to say here), with a petite woman and another time with a "big" girl (you can decide what defines petite and big to your own sense).....which one did you find more "physically satisfying"????

Please...no one get offended. Everyone has their own ideas of what is ideal, but we have one "well rounded" lady in our group of friends who has heard from many lovers, how they enjoy her over past lovers with "bony butts" and "ribs showing", while the rock body in our group says she hears about "It is so nice to have a lover with muscles, not flab, for a change"...etc. you get the idea.

So...guys, be honest. Answer only if you have enjoyed sexual relations with both petite or skinny woman and larger, big boned or heavier woman and tell us which you found more physically satisfying (not emotional...unless you think you can really generalize), but physically....the difference between petite and large...again, however you define it (you can give details if you wish, to make clear what your definition is).

Thanks, guys. You EF dudes are the BEST.
10/09/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
Hubby and I just talked about this not 5 minutes ago. HIS opinion--I like women with curves. Marilyn Monroe had curves and that is how women are supposed to be--soft, curvy and sexy.

What started the conversation--I was a trim 125 when we got together and weigh in at 149 now. I asked him if he wanted me to get back to my thin weight and he said Hell no. He likes curves, not bones.
10/10/2012
Contributor: garychutchcouple garychutchcouple
It's all about attitude and effort for me!
10/10/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
my husband says they both have their pros and cons. but mostly he like medium body type.

then he giggled and said, it is cool with skinny girls to be able to see your rod poking up their skin..
10/10/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I hear from a lot of men that they like women with some curves as well.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Forever Hers! Forever Hers!
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Guys, this is a very specific question and it has lead to some heated discussions among some of us friends (all woman) with very different "body styles". It is a somewhat complicated question, BUT.....All things being equal (not, "oh, ... more
I'm lesbian but I lovee me a bigger girl. Curves, butt, breasts, hips and everything lol
10/10/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
my guy hates super skinny girls
10/10/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
I am 4'11" and when my husband and I first got together I was fresh out of high school and weighed 98 lbs. Now, 2 kids (3 pregnancies) and almost 12 years later I am at 150 lbs. (I have recently lost 10 lbs and am very happy to keep going for another 15 lbs.) Recently we found pictures of me when we were first dating and he said (unprovoked) "Oh my God! I can't believe how skinny you were. Please do not be this skinny ever again." He has always gone for curvy girls (he says my personality won him over because I was too skinny for his taste all those years ago.) and says he rather have me as I was 10 lbs. ago than the 98 lbs. again ever.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
So, no love for skinny girls? Some of us can't help it.

Oh well. To each their own.
10/10/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
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Originally posted by Supervixen
So, no love for skinny girls? Some of us can't help it.

Oh well. To each their own.
I know plenty of guys who love skinny girls, otherwise, a good portion of my friends would never be getting laid.

I've found that skinny guys seem to like my zaftig self, which does give me some pause, because I'm afraid to be on top, lest I crush their frail pelvises.
10/11/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
A lot of guys like women with meat on their bones and just as many like the thinner women. I have been with a guy who has dated strippers,models and all those types of itty bitty girls but he told me he preferred the thicker girls. I have been with thin,medium and thicker built men and most all of them have told me they would rather be with a thicker girl because bones don't feel good. Everyone has their own preferences though.
10/11/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
I prefer curvy but find all female bodies beautiful.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
These conversations are always weird to me--like it's either bony girls, or chubby girls, and there's nothing in between. What about someone who is just fit and healthy looking? Being petite and thin does not mean you're bony, and being curvy doesn't mean you're fat.

Sometimes I think guys just say they like the body type of whoever they happen to be with to ease her insecurities, but really, most likely there is a wide range of female body types that most guys will like. Boobs too small? No, they're perky and cute! Boobs too big? No way, the bigger the better! Ass too narrow? No, no sweetie, your ass is perfect! Ass too big? Hell no, just more to love!

Seriously, for all the big women out there who hear how much sexier they are from men, I'd be willing to bet there are just as many petite women who are thinking the same thing about themselves because of what they consistently get told in the bedroom.
10/11/2012
Contributor: FHeemz FHeemz
This is a silly question. One will never be better than the other. Some men like em thin, some like em thick, some like em inbetween, some like all women, some don't like women at all. Everyone has different tastes.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i am not into skinny chicks or fat chicks but i like everything in between. i need something to grab onto and be able to throw around.
10/12/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
I like a fit girl the best. Toned muscles, not masculine, are a sure turn on for me. I am not a fan of the more over weight women, but I have been with a few, just as a rule, I prefer smaller, leaner, more fit women.
10/12/2012
Contributor: ben12 ben12
id have to say out of a skinny or a chubby id have to pik the chubby,skinny just leaves you damaged,not nice feeling bones
01/21/2013