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Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and had a lot of meaningless sex. At least he was honest about it.

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10/21/2010
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Contributor: Envy Envy
We spoke, but I was a virgin and he had no sexual experience either outside a handjob once or twice, so our talk consisted more of talking about how scared we were and such, lol, as well as precautions to take and some of our sexual hangups and embarrassments and worries.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and ... more
Yep we talked about it and know each other's numbers. We also over the years know the basics about each partner that the other has had in the past. No details or anything, well ok we have talked about SOME details, but we know the basics of what each relationship the other had before. We talk about everything though, I honestly don't think there's much that we don't know about each other.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and ... more
I have no idea how many women Sigel has been with...mainly because he was with me and cheating for most of them. Now a days he tells me everything and I even get to meet his playmates. This is a big step for him because he is so very private but it is exciting for him and I to be able to share.

Arch has only ever been with me, though I don't have any problem should he meet someone he is interested in. I trust that he will tell me and be honest with her. I have no fear he will fall out of love with me because he loves someone else.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and ... more
Yup, we had the talk.

My current boyfriend is my lucky number seven. <3
10/21/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Yep, I've always had the number talk.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
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Originally posted by Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and ... more
We know, we count together. We were each other's nineth, now I'm at thirteen and my girlfriend's at fourteen. <3 We're both hoping to get to twenty by january
10/21/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
We've had the talk. He's my 3rd and I'm his 6th.
10/21/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I've yet to be in that situation, but I don't think I'd care how many people my partner has slept with, as long as they get regularly tested for STIs and the like. If they wanted to tell me, fine, but I wouldn't sit down with them and be like, "So, how many people have you fucked?"
10/21/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
No. Absolutely no. Nothing good can come of it.
Personally, I don't care what his number is - I like to imagine he was kind of a Cassanova man-whore before we met (you know, like in college) but I don't need a number. I don't think he would ask me mine, I think he knows that whatever the answer was, he wouldn't like it - it's probably higher than his.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Yep. We've joked and laughed about it. Mine's higher than his, but we are just very open and honest with each other. I knew he wouldn't think anything less of me if I told him I'd slept with __ guys/girls. And I don't think any different of him for sleeping with __ girls. We still love wach other, though he occassionally calls me a harlot and whore. But he says it so sweetly and jokingly that it makes me love him even more.

Me: "What cookies should we get?"
Him: "Hmmm...I don't know.
Me: "Chips Ahoy? Oreos?"
Him: "Only whores eat Oreos."
Me."..."
Him: *runs away*
10/22/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Blinker
Yep. We've joked and laughed about it. Mine's higher than his, but we are just very open and honest with each other. I knew he wouldn't think anything less of me if I told him I'd slept with __ guys/girls. And I don't think any ... more
LOL yea we're the same way, he's called me easy and a whore but it's all joking..heck I call myself easy and a bit of a slut back in the day..
10/22/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Yes we have. It was pretty painless.
10/22/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
yes. when we first started dating. i can count ine in one hane. he needs two. no biggie and not important
10/22/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I usually don't tell people, and neither does my boyfriend but we both did this time around and our numbers are almost equal, give or take just a few.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
The number just doesn't matter to me, and I am pretty sure my husband doesn't want to hear about sex I had before he and I met. To each their own. The safe sex talk is important, however - and that was discussed early on. As was testing etc.
10/22/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Danielle1220
Have you and your other half ever talked about past sexual partners. Do you know your partner's "number"?

My husband and I have had the talk, he's not sure of the number, but he went through a "male whore" phase and ... more
LOL that's the experience I had except he has a round about number. I actually had never been with a guy who had more partners than I although it had been close a few times. I used to think my number was average, but after coming to eden I've realized it's actually really modest. My number was a mere 1/5 of what his previous partner's was! We had the talk before we even dated, so no surprises there.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
We have had the talk, and my number is only 2- him and my ex. He didn't believe me at first.. "How can a girl as beautiful as you only have fucked 2 people?" I suppose it was a compliment, but I was mildly offended. Of course, after almost 4 years of being together he believes me.

I don't know his exact number, just that it's over 10 but under 20. He had a man-whore phase, too. He started puberty really early, (was jacking off at 6- and able to finish. EW! ) and dated his fair share of girls. But according to him, he had very few relations with girls he wasn't dating, which is good to know.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My ex-husband clammed up, and I've only been able to get two 'definites' out of him - the girl who got his virginity and a MILF who nearly got him killed when her trooper husband showed up. Oh, and an 'attempt' while he was enlisted and was dragged to a whorehouse (evening ended with him getting slugged with a pool cue). I suppose I may be listed as another 'attempt'.

I know Mulder had more than the three women he got pregnant, but he didn't want to talk, either ...
10/22/2010