Sometimes people fake an orgasm for some reasons. how about your experience?
Have you ever faked an orgasm? (this is a private voting)
11/20/2010
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I have totally done this when I wasn't that into it and I knew the guy was waiting for me before he finished. ... Or because I thought it would push him far enough that he would finish.
11/20/2010
I have done this, but it has been with past relationships, my hubby now always makes sure I get off so I don't need to fake it! Gotta love him!
11/20/2010
We had a pretty interesting discussion on this not too long ago. Very eye-opening in some respects.
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11/20/2010
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Pretty much with every partner. Usually because they were trying hard and I knew it wasn't going to happen, but with one person it was because they just couldn't get me off.
Originally posted by
kitti
Sometimes people fake an orgasm for some reasons. how about your experience?
11/21/2010
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I will fake an orgasm if you get me drunk enough to fuck you when I am still sober enough to know I would rather not.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
Pretty much with every partner. Usually because they were trying hard and I knew it wasn't going to happen, but with one person it was because they just couldn't get me off.
11/21/2010
I have once, because he kind of stunk and I just wanted to get back to what I was doing before hand.
11/21/2010
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I have had partners who fed off my energy and vice versa to climax. That being said, if I know it's not going to happen, rather than ruin their good time along with mine, I just fake it so at least one of us has a happy ending!
Originally posted by
kitti
Sometimes people fake an orgasm for some reasons. how about your experience?
11/21/2010
I had to fake most of my marriage, if I do say so myself I am very good at it.
11/22/2010
I did way back when, when I was a teenager...but I REFUSE to do it now. The reality is that, just because you don't orgasm doesn't mean the sex wasn't great.
In the other thread Laur3n said "sometimes if I am having a hard time, I will start to overplay my pleasure on purpose because it often gives me that little extra that i need to finish. But sometimes it doesn't work, so in essence...faked. The pleasure is real, the finish is not. Does that even make sense? This used to occur a lot more than it does now. I can't remember the last time it happened."
Yup. This. But it really isn't faking if you have a point to doing it in the first place. J can tell (as long as we're having sex), he can feel the orgasm...he would totally know if I was lying anyway.
In the other thread Laur3n said "sometimes if I am having a hard time, I will start to overplay my pleasure on purpose because it often gives me that little extra that i need to finish. But sometimes it doesn't work, so in essence...faked. The pleasure is real, the finish is not. Does that even make sense? This used to occur a lot more than it does now. I can't remember the last time it happened."
Yup. This. But it really isn't faking if you have a point to doing it in the first place. J can tell (as long as we're having sex), he can feel the orgasm...he would totally know if I was lying anyway.
12/08/2010
No, I have never felt the need to.
If they can't get me there, I have to tell them and then I'm done with the sex.
If they can't get me there, I have to tell them and then I'm done with the sex.
07/09/2011
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I think I could, but never have. I orgasm to easy for real to need to fake it.
Originally posted by
kitti
Sometimes people fake an orgasm for some reasons. how about your experience?
07/09/2011
Never needed too--im a big fan of giving guidance when things arent working for me--so i have never really needed to
07/09/2011
I voted no but then I remembered the one time I did. I was cybering with a guy and using him to bust my mood (I had period cramps and was feeling yucky). He was way too detail oriented and verbose. He told me to signal to him when I was coming. I sent the "now" even tough I wasn't even masturbating. Later we had great conversation that really helped me. If there was a chance of meeting him I would probably do something about the things that turned me off 'cause the guy was fit, not that much older than me and into pegging. But since he was too far away I didn't make myself any disservice by giving him false feedback.
07/09/2011
Havent so far
07/09/2011
As a guy, I don't even know how I would go about that; I guess I could pretend to come inside while wearing a condom, but I can't imagine why I would want to do that...
07/09/2011
Why should I reward bad behavior lol no seriously I find open communication the best. If I need him to alter something or do something different then I will ask and if my body just doesn't want to cooperate then I let him know( by the way its only happened once)and hes cool with it
07/09/2011
I either finish or I don't. It doesn't really matter to me, and they should understand that I am OK not finishing.
07/09/2011
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Many years ago, I had a GF whose sex drive matched my own rather rapacious appetite. Occasionally after I'd orgasmed six or seven times myself during the course of an evening and we'd lost count of hers, she would want me to cum... just one more time. Well after that many times nothing comes out anyway. I admit that I did "fake it" she was happy as was I.
Originally posted by
Bonesdance
As a guy, I don't even know how I would go about that; I guess I could pretend to come inside while wearing a condom, but I can't imagine why I would want to do that...
07/09/2011
never
07/09/2011
Probably, cant remember too well
09/19/2011
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