I had my first guy try to do some anal play while giving me oral within like the first 3 times. First boyfriend to do oral with, and I was already kinda iffy about that (just the idea of receiving oral, not "this is going too fast" type deal). When he tried it I had to just stop him and tell him no. He was pretty understanding.

Now I'm comfortable with the idea of anal. I think my opinion of it would be ruined if I had let him try it, though.

My current guy has not suggested anything I'm uncomfortable with so far.

Yea he always wants anal and I am not comfortable with that at all

I had one guy lick my anus during oral. I didn't expect it and even though it wasn't a big deal, I didn't want it. I would only go for that again if I was prepared for it. I've also dated one guy who talked about having me watch him with another girl. I thought as a fantasy that was fine (he can think all he wants) but as a reality, it's not at all for me.

He: Nope!

She: Me either. He's comfy with pretty much anything once.

He: Most likely more than once.