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Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
I've asked several people and have been surprised by the variety of answers I've gotten. Apparently there are a lot of different ways to do it. How do you?
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One person masturbates, the other listens with little or no talking.
2
Both masturbate at the same time (or take turns) little talking, just listening to the moans and grunts of the other person
9
One person masturbates, intimately describing his or her activities while the other person listens
5
Both masturbate at the same time (or take turns) intimately describing his or her activities while the other person listens
30
One person masturbates while the other person gives instructions on what to do
6
One person describes a sex act and/or what they would like to/will do to the other person when/if the opportunity arrives
9
Both people escribes a sex act and/or what they would like to/will do to the other person when/if the opportunity arrives
15
Something else? Please describe!!
2
Total votes: 78 (36 voters)
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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I haven't had much phone sex, but I seem to have had a variety.
11/25/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by celibacysucks
I've asked several people and have been surprised by the variety of answers I've gotten. Apparently there are a lot of different ways to do it. How do you?
Both talk dirty send a few pics and both get off.
11/25/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I have phone sex every once in a while with my partner, because I am away at school and only see him every so often. When we do have phone sex, both of us masturbate, tell about sex acts, moans, and describe in detail what we would do.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
When I use to have phone sex with a long distant partner, one would describe what they wanted to be doing to the one who played.
11/28/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
Phone sex rocks! I can have it many different ways, all fun and sexy.
11/28/2010
Contributor: heaven360 heaven360
Quote:
Originally posted by celibacysucks
I've asked several people and have been surprised by the variety of answers I've gotten. Apparently there are a lot of different ways to do it. How do you?
talk dirty, moan, masturbate...its easy
11/28/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I think I've done it pretty much all of those ways. With my last boyfriend was when it started. We had a long distance relationship so we did this a lot. It was mostly an exchange of pictures one by one while on the phone listening to each other's reactions to the pictures and sometimes talking about what we wanted to do. We often finished at the same time.

With my current boyfriend, we had a period where I did an internship and was away a lot. We did pretty much the same thing but sometimes we told each other what to do or what to have pictures of for later etc.

Both guys had a great ability to make it seem as if the distance was not there anymore. I know it's not for everyone and I honestly never thought it would be satisfying, but it really is. Knowing that I'm the last thought before he goes to bed even miles and miles away is amazing
11/28/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I had a lot of phone sex with my ex, and we would 'play out' fantasies over the phone, like a story. It was pretty awesome, because we got to 'do' things that would never be feasible in reality, ie. in person.
11/28/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I have never actually done this. I have been in relationships where I do not get to see him very much, but this topic never came up. My current boyfriend is at my house almost every day, so I don't really have a need for it now.
11/29/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
havent had phone sex in a long time. last time i remember was maybe 2 yrs ago. my hubbie and i were apart for 2 weeks. when were were first dating, a lot of phone sex was happening.
11/29/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Never done it, but it is interesting to read about techniques.
11/29/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
I'd say it's just whatever you're comfortable with. Everybody is different.
11/29/2010
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
When we had phone sex, usually we'd both masturbate. He'd usually talk about what he wants to do to me, and I'd talk about what I wanted to do to him. It was awesome. I miss phone sex.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Jo Nana Jo Nana
Def a turn off
09/22/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Phone sex is not something I'm into...just feels silly. Can't get into it really.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Haven't really had much phone sex, as my wife and I are usually never very far apart!
09/24/2011
Contributor: ~*Nikila*~ ~*Nikila*~
we'd both tell each other what we would do to teh other then one of us ( me most of the time) start moaning till one of us orgasims i just moan some times to get him off caus eim too lazy to do anying and just play a video game Lol
09/24/2011