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How long is good for sex? And how many times a week?

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Contributor: wrock wrock
Ok I understand that there are some times when you can just cum in no time but normaly what do you all think is a good amount of time to have sex for? And how many times a week?


I want a larger group to poll from so I am asking here. It seems to me from people around me IE my wifes and my friends. It seem that they my friends dont enjoy sex or they dont enjoy it for long.

One couple said they only had sex for like 10min and thats good and maybe 2-4 times a month.

Another couple only has sex when he wants and he is very quick and she never gets off. Even then they rarely have sex.

Now my wife and I have been together for almost 13 years and alomst married for 10. We were on a 2-4 times a day for the first 3 years but it has been between 3-6 days a week 1-3 times on those days for long time now. We love each other and enjoy each other. So to us these other couples seem out of whack. Then again maybe we are. A normal love making for us is between 45-90min.

And we are not talking just sex here we mean everything foreplay whatever and so are they.

So what do you think? Whats good?
11/02/2012
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
So it's 1-3 times a day at 45-90 minutes? How do you have time for anything else?!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all as long as you both enjoy it. I find it unusual that your wives friend never gets off!

My partner usually lasts longer than comfortable for me. After about 25 minutes of actual intercourse it can get painful or just stop feeling good. He regularly lasts 45 minutes and that's too much for me. We recently started using the vibrating cock rings and it helps!
11/02/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we have sex about 4-5 times a week, and maybe 30-60 minutes per time. We are happy with that, and it leaves time for the kids and everything else in life.
11/02/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
At least once a day. But I wish it was twice. And I prefer at 30 minutes minimum. I absolutely love long sessions.
11/02/2012
Contributor: wrock wrock
Yes I can see how doing it 3 times a day 90 min a time is alot. and I am sure we havent done that in a long time I and retired so we do have alot of time together.

I am happy to see that we are not the only ones doing it as much and for as long thanks.
11/05/2012